re calling weddings - Contra Callers

5 Jul 2023

Hi All,

I've been really enjoying this thread on calling weddings!

I'd say that they are SOOOOO much fun but as a contra dance caller, they
are WAY different than calling to a room full of people who have
specifically come for contra calling.  I've actually grown to love ONS (one
night stands) more than contra dances but starting from a contra mindset,
it took a little while to learn.

Here are some random thoughts:

   - Agree with Lisa S and others. Weddings are not a good place to
   actively recruit contra dancers.  That's not why folks are there. If
   someone comes up and asks you about the dance, great but I'd hold off
   saying anything about other opportunities.
   - At my wedding, about 1/3-1/2 of the people there had contra danced
   before and yet, I think there was maybe one contra the whole night.  If you
   want to make the dancing fun and accessible for a room of wedding guests,
   it really is a totally different program. The one contra I might call would
   be Family Contra and that would be after testing the waters with
   Do-Si-Three... which would be after doing some Longways, circles, and
   squares.
   - I would plan for up to 90min but anticipate doing less. Even with a
   keen crowd, after 90min, folks really want to focus on other things at the
   wedding. I've often seen it work well to have canned music after the 90min.
   - I've heard repeatedly that it's good to do the trad dancing BEFORE the
   cake is cut. After the cake is done, guests start dispersing.
   - When I call a wedding, I always make sure that the groom and bride are
   going to dance and I ask that they let their guests know about the dance
   ahead of time and really talk it up.  If the groom and bride aren't going
   to get in on it, the other guests won't either.
   - My very favourite dance for starting a wedding is Moon and Stars...
   very similar to La Bastringue. I love it as after the 7-8th time, you can
   start changing up Suns and Moons for "whoever is related to the bride ///
   everyone else" ... "whoever came from afar /// everyone else"... that
kind
   of thing.

:) Emily

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