Hi all,
A good friend I made through contra dance has asked me to call some dancing
at her wedding reception. (She is also a budding caller who I mentored for
a while as she was getting started.) As soon as I said "yes", she asked
what compensation would be meaningful to me, which strikes me as a
thoughtful and thought-provoking way to put it.
While I ponder my answer, I'm curious to hear what other callers charge for
wedding dances. If there's a range, would you ask differently for newly-met
people vs. friends from your dance community vs. close friends and family?
What other factors would you consider?
For myself, for very close friends I have sometimes refused payment out of
love, considering it a wedding gift to them. Others view their own wedding
as a time of outward generosity and wouldn't dream of paying less than the
customary amount, whatever the heck that is. (I am also an occasional
wedding officiant and faced the same conundrum there, but at least have a
more well-defined range of fees from the local community to fall back on
when either side considers full payment to be needed.)
I have called enough family events that I know what to bring and what to
expect as a caller. I'd just like to focus on compensation here, unless
there's something about the work that's needed from the caller that would
influence what you ask.
Joseph Erhard-Hudson
Moscow, Idaho
Hey folks,
I wonder what people's thoughts are on end-of-the night thank-you's for a
contra dance.
Folks you might thank or call-out for applause:
Band
Caller
Organizers/volunteers
Sound person
I feel like a lot of places go band->caller->sound person; hopefully
thanking the volunteers at the announcements.
I can see doing the final band thank you right after the band gets to play
their big closing number for the evening. Everyone's amped up, call out the
band and then tack the other ones on.
But I think about the theater, where at the end of the performance the
performers come out for bows. There, it's usually chorus->supporting->main
cast; and by that system I think we should thank the band last. But usually
in theater when all the cast is on stage they give a thank you and wave to
the tech crew and director. Which would imply
caller->band->sound+organizers.
Just wondering what folks' thoughts were on the subject.
Happy dancing,
Luke Donforth
(Burlington, VT)
I may waive or halve my fee for a close friend but I always ensure the three-piece band gets their full fee. With sound and travel of 1-2 hours I charge $2000 to $2500 with half up front to hold the date. (Date is not guaranteed until deposit is paid.) We are the entertainment. We take a dinner party and turn it to a memorable, joyful, playful event that brings two families together. We are there for four or five hours working hard to make that event a success regardless of alcohol, children, or lousy dance floors. All the same to me--that's my job. I have spent hours pulling the band, sound, the couple's vision and program together and no matter how inexpensive the wedding, we are still often the cheapest piece.
Leslie Gotfrit
WWW.LeslieGotfrit.com
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Dear callers and fellow dance writers,
I am writing a new contra dance and I have a question:
Has there ever been an instance where, during a “Right hand high and left
hand low,” everybody in a line of FOUR snakes under the raised arms (i.e.,
no one turns alone) in order to come back up the hall?
Caller’s Box explains the move as “A way for a line of three to face the
other direction and swap ends without dropping hands.” I want it to be a
line of four. Will that work?
Thank you!
--
* Elizabeth Bloom Albert *
I am tasked with calling a Colonial Dance with mostly novices. Most of the
dances I have are Triple Minors and contain Rights and Lefts. I am
converting the dances to Duple Minors in most cases, or perhaps to a
Triplet if need be.
I have two questions.
Do you have a favorite replacement for the 16 count Rights and Lefts that
will leave dancers facing their new neighbors?
Do you have any Regency period or colonial flavored dances for a group of
novice dancers?
Thanks!
Rich Sbardella
Stafford, CT, USA
Hello again all!
Thank you to those who've already shared their favorite barn and ceilidh
dances with me! I'm having trouble searching the Shared Weight archives, so
apologies if this has been asked before.
After discovering that the space allotted to my dance event this Sunday is
fairly small, I'm now looking for dances in space-efficient formations.
The dance floor is about 10 paces wide and deep, so about the right size
for four 8-person squares. It's not a great size for longways sets, so I'm
thinking scatter mixers and concentric circles might be good — maybe some
triplets?? "Squares" four more than 8, Like Monkey in the Middle?
What miniature dances do you brilliant people have up your sleeves? 🙂
Ang
Hi Folks :)
I have what I think is a fun ask/challenge for a few of you.... I'm
wondering if you might be up for a triplet composition brainstorm?
Here's the situation....
One of the series that I call is to a very novice group of dancers - there
are VERY few contra dancers in the mix. I do a lot of squares, scatters,
the occasional very simple contra, and mix in other formations. Triplets
work really well for this group.
I came across the dance below a while back and I love love love the A part.
Super simple but quite enjoyable. When I've workshopped it at home though,
the B part is fairly tricky to get the actives to move up to the very top
to get to that cast off. (It should work but I've workshopped it with a
few other callers+ experienced dancers and doesn't seem intuitive/easy)
So... I was wondering if anyone might enjoy the challenge of coming up with
a fun second part to create a new dance? I thought I'd throw it out there
into the universe as I know some of you are dance composers and enjoy
taking aspects of a particular dance and playing with it.
Nooooo pressure - just a fun exploration for those who might enjoy.
:)
Emily in Ottawa
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Anne's Dream by Katy Heine
Triplet (can be danced no role if one wants)
A1: Top 4 circle L all the way. Balance. 2s arch & 1s thru.
A2: Bottom 4 circle L all the way. Balance. 3s arch & 1s thru.
B1: Couple 1 strips the willow back up to the top (I've played with this a
bit in terms of how many times around etc... it never seems to settle in)
B2: 1s cross and cast to bottom. All step up and 2H turn or swing.
Hi Folks!
I'm wondering if you have tricks to teach Box the Gnat and Swat the Flea to
a whole room of dancers who have not done it before. (In this case, it's
happening in an otherwise very simple scatter mixer but I can imagine
almost no one will know the figure.)
The wording I've figured out is below.
I feel like it's wordy but it's also a hard move to pick up because it's
kind of weird what's actually happening. :)
Ideally, I'd love to be able to teach this without a demo but I feel like
I'm stuck with the demo. (If you have talk BtheG to a big room of
non-dancers without a demo, I'd love to hear your strategies).
Anyway - open to any and all feedback.
Thanks!
Emily in Ottawa
DEMO BoxTGnat from a hands 4
With your P - join R hands in loose handshake hold – no thumbs!
Goal is to trad places with your P so you end up in the spot there are
right now.
BUT Lark/Robin will be doing different things to get there!
But little tug to start & raise joined hands.
Larks: you walk past your P into your P place. (could feel like
behind/outside of the circle)
Robins: you WALK under your joined hands, turning in to face ctr of circle
& keep turning until face P . You have stepped into THEIR place. Have
them drill StF and BtG over and over before starting the rest of the dance.
Hello everyone!
I've been starting a new dance series in Gainesville, Florida called the
All Y'all. The gist of the series is that each event features a variety of
community social dancing in an effort to attract experienced dancers who
want to try new styles, as well as dancers who are brand new to all of it.
At the first event we had barn dances, some very easy contra dances, a
simple square dance, some urban line dancing, and a demo performance from a
local clogging group. It was a great success, with around 75 folks
attending, the majority of whom were beginners. Here's a link if you want
to check out some videos of the fun.
<https://www.instagram.com/p/DO1uvMGkbFm/?img_index=1>
*Here's the ask:* I need to expand my repertoire of beginner-friendly
dances to include more formations, and also different traditions! In
particular, I want to add more English, Scottish, etc ceilidh dances to my
bank for my upcoming events. Simple squares and anything else you adore is
also welcome!
If you have one of two you love, please send them along. Please include
what tradition and/or country the dance originates from when appropriate!
I'm not yet at a point where I can request any special music — so like,
some day I'd love to have balfolk and all that goodness, but it won't
happen soon. For now assume the musicians are playing from the American
Oldtime repertoire (including 3-part tunes!).
Thank you all in advance, especially those reading from across the pond. 🙂
Ang
Hi Callers,
I have a gig on Oct 30, so naturally I'm plumbing the archives for
Halloween-themed choices. There have been several threads on this, I'm not
trying to start another one, I have two more specific questions:
1. Anyone got tips for teaching the Wizard's Walk figure? I've danced it
(although not recently); I've never called it. (I'm interested in all tips,
but FWIW I'm expecting a relatively experienced semi-monthly local crowd.)
2. The specific W'sW descendant I'm planning to use is Cis Hinkle's The
WItches Way
<https://www.ibiblio.org/contradance/thecallersbox/dance.php?id=3804>,
which has the Wizard's Walk figure in A1. It seems to me that to better fit
the original Wizard's Walk tune the dance should be "rotated" thus:
A1: (4,4) balance the ring (with Nbr1s); Petronella turn 1 place to R (no
claps)
(8) Partner swing
A2: (4,4) balance the ring; Petronella turn 1 place to R (no claps)
(8) Neighbor1 swing
B1: (8) Robins chain (to Ptr)
(6) circle RIGHT 3/4
(2) Ones arch, twos dive [to meet next Nbrs)
B2: (16) Wizard's Walk:
| (4) Nbr 2 mirror pass through along (ones split twos)
| (4) Nbr 3 mirror pass through along (twos split ones)
| (4) backing up Nbr 3 mirror pass through along (ones split twos)
| (4) backing up Nbr 2 mirror pass through along (twos split ones)
Has anyone done that? Do y'all agree? (The original dance
<https://www.cambridgefolk.org.uk/contra/dances/ruth_ungar/wizards_walk.html>
has the W.W. figure in B2.) I don't know if such a variant deserves its own
name, but if so it seems like it should be called "Wayward Witches".
Cheers,
--Andrew Stout