Hey all,
In the case of a hall with many same gendered couples, I am not sure how the shadow helps
the person playing the opposite gender role, if they even can be said to need the opposite
gender interaction.  Let us assume a couple made up of two women.  A shadow, by
definition, is a partner analogue, so the person playing the W will likely get a man as
her shadow, several men if there are several shadows, but the woman playing the gent will
get all women shadows.  For her, should she desire opposite gender interaction, a same
gender gypsy, or swing, or allemande serves the purpose a shadow never could.  Just saying
I don't believe gender imbalance should be the excuse to roll out a shadow dance. 
Groundhog Day seems a better opportunity!
One further point, shadows are so called because, at least in all the instances I can
summon to mind, they follow you through the dance, or you follow them.  At any rate, you
are linked.  While the first introduction may be a surprise, this does not make it a mixer
unless the line gets very confused and you lose your original shadow as a result.  I take
your point about not everyone enjoying repeatedly swinging a person randomly destined to
be their shadow, but it is after all, just a dance, and unless they are very horrible
indeed, fun can be had with most anyone, and it is over soon enough.  
Perhaps with that in mind Luke, if you are going to have a number of shadow dances, let
the interaction with the shadow be different in each dance: one a swing, the next
allemandes, the next a gypsy, a do si do, what have you.  Sounds fun.  Wish I could be
there. :)
Andrea
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On Dec 25, 2011, at 2:27 PM, Greg McKenzie <grekenzie(a)gmail.com> wrote:
  I call dances with shadows.  They are particularly
good for times when
 there is an imbalance of genders because same-gender couples get to
 interact with an opposite-gendered shadow.  With added non-partner
 interaction shadow figures tend to lower what I call "partnering pressure"
 because you still have significant interaction with someone other than your
 partner.  I can see why some people don't like shadow swings.  To some
 extent shadow swings can turn a contra into a forced "random" mixer where
 you swing with an unexpected "partner" (shadow) every time.  They have some
 of the same disadvantages as mixers.
 
 One shadow dance I like is "Every Second Counts" by Jim Kitch.  It has a
 shadow gypsy which allows good interaction but avoids some of the
 awkwardness you can feel with a particular swinger you might not be
 comfortable swinging with--either for physical or social comfort.  And if
 the "shadows" wish they can conspire to swing instead of gypsy.
 
 - Greg McKenzie
 
 On Sun, Dec 25, 2011 at 6:22 AM, Luke Donforth <luke.donev(a)gmail.com> wrote:
 
  Hello all,
 
 Ground Hog's Day is more than a month away, but I wanted to send the
 question out now. What are your favorite dances with shadows (or trail
 buddies)?
 
 Thanks
 
 --
 Luke Donforth
 Luke.Donforth(a)gmail.com <Luke.Donev(a)gmail.com>
 
www.lukedonev.com
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