see my comments sprinkled....... On Mar 6, 2018, at 12:21 AM, Jeanette Mill via Callers wrote: That's a great issue to discuss. My thought is that having a really fun time requires someone to take the initiative. Of course it's quite possible that dancing in Australia is different than dancing here in the states. Would it depend on the situation? If there are new dancers would you expect or appreciate leading from a more experienced dancer? I would say skill level would play a part in this issue even between people who are not beginners. I know in my small town everyone knows everyone and it's easy to adjust your style when it comes to embellishments. When you meet someone in line you know what to expect unless it's a new face. Would that be very different at a large dance or say at a festival where people from other areas attend? My limited personal experience is that I'm the leader because I'm the stronger dancer. If I verbally suggest that my partner "twirl me" they will, but it's usually in the wrong direction or at the wrong time. There are good female leaders out there, but not here in my town. So how about a workshop where people are allowed or encouraged to try the role they may not be the most comfortable with?