Lisa is correct. If your main goal is to recruit new dancers to your local group, you
will be sadly disappointed. That doesn't mean that you won't ever get someone who
enjoys it at the wedding and then follows up by going to the local dance, but that is
going to be very rare. As it happens I started contra dancing after experiencing it at a
wedding. However, I have called dances at many weddings and I can't think of anyone
who attended one of those, who wasn't already a dancer, and then started going to our
local dance.
An exception might be if the people getting married are hardcore dancers and they
invite a lot of the local dancers to their wedding. This might help to recruit
non-dancers to give it a try in the future. The couple might even have in mind trying to
recruit their non-dancing friends.
Other than that you should probably assume that none of those in attendance have ever
danced before, and that they probably won't do so ever again. The best I hope for is
that they have fun and then the next time they see a dance mentioned on the news or in the
paper or something they may be inclined to give it a try.
Jonathan
On 7/3/2023 3:04 PM, Lisa Sieverts via Contra Callers wrote:
Joe said:
I welcome any advice! My main goal in taking
wedding gigs is recruiting
new dancers to our local scene, if that matters.
Joe, that does matter. Remember that a wedding is one of the most important days in the
couple’s lives. Your goal as a wedding caller is to make the dancing fun for the couple
and their guests. Wedding dances are great when the dance helps the two families and their
respective friends to be able to connect and enjoy meeting each other.
I think it would be crass to mention a local dance unless you are asked “where can we do
more of this.”
Lisa Sieverts
603-762-0235
lisa(a)lisasieverts.com
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