Erik, I don't see a a link to the spiral dance / snake shedding its skin
you said you had!
Sort of related, I called The Double Bow Knot two nights ago at a regular
contra dance. Here's a link to a video cause it's hard to explain!
 It has circles and arches and it sort of
spirals, though I wouldn't call it a large spiral dance. You could
potentially do that dance and then have the double bow knot figure with a
large circle. It's a super fun dance.
As an aside, last night I went to the old time jam, and one of our long
time local square dance callers wanted a word with me - he said "I heard
you called a square dance last night!" I found this interaction lovely and
hilarious. In our contra dance community, we've experienced the same
decline in squares' popularity. I think it's possible and valuable to bring
squares and other formations and styles of dance back in. I'm inspired by
the joy and accessibility of the old-time square dances that brought me to
contra dancing in the first place. I'm inspired by New England dancers'
love for English country dance. I'm inspired by anything that can break the
mold and get people to interact in ways they maybe weren't expecting. Isn't
that part of what makes contra dance so great? We go from our days of
separateness and individualism to an evening of mutual and communal
movement, living in the moment.
Anyway, cheers!
Liz Burkhart from Cincinnati
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    3. Re: The Spiral Dance (frannie)
    4. Re: The Spiral Dance (Casey Carr)
    5. Re: The Spiral Dance (Meg Dedolph)
    6. Re: The Spiral Dance (Jessica Atkinson)
    7. Re: The Spiral Dance (Jerome Grisanti)
    8. Re: Gentlespoons/Ladles (from Rompin' Stompin') (Bree Kalb)
    9. Re: Gentlespoons/Ladles (from Rompin' Stompin') (Jon Greene)
   10. Re: The Spiral Dance (Stein, Robert)
   11. Re: The Spiral Dance (Luke Donforth)
   12. Re: The Spiral Dance (Mary Collins)
   13. Re: Gentlespoons/Ladles (from Rompin' Stompin') (Julian Blechner)
   14. Re: The Spiral Dance (Katherine Kitching)
   15. Antivaxx stuff (Julian Blechner)
   16. Re: The Spiral Dance (Louise Siddons)
   17. Re: The Spiral Dance (Erik Hoffman)
   18. Re: Gentlespoons/Ladles (from Rompin' Stompin') (Erik Hoffman)
   19. Re: The Spiral Dance (Rich Goss)
   20. Re: Gentlespoons/Ladles (from Rompin' Stompin') (Jeff Kaufman)
   21. Re: Gentlespoons/Ladles (from Rompin' Stompin') (Dan Kappus)
   22. Re: The Spiral Dance (Jacob or Nancy Bloom)
   23. Re: The Spiral Dance (Helle Hill)
   24. Re: The Spiral Dance (Jimmy Akin)
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 To: Jeff Kaufman <jeff(a)alum.swarthmore.edu>
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 Date: Tue, 14 Feb 2023 01:47:44 -0500
 Subject: [Callers] Re: Gentlespoons/Ladles (from Rompin' Stompin')
 2 items.
 1. Jets/Rubies
 A story I'm unsure how many have heard:
 Ultimately, what sunk "jets/rubies" wasn't so much "airplane" or
 "black/red" (ships and planes are traditionally named after women, so, I
 never got the whole "a jet is masculine" thing, but, I digress).
 A dance I called in Brooklyn with Bob Isaacs was a tipping point -  before
 Brooklyn's contra dance had settled on terms.
 The orgs got a few complaints that "jets" sounded _too_ much like
"gents"
 in a "who are we kidding?" sort of way.
 This came as a surprise to me, as the going assumption was that "sounds
 like gents, but isn't actually gents" was a feature, not a bug (coming from
 Hampshire College's tests that Jets/Rubies had initially became the initial
 non-bands/bares popular set of genderfreee terms to try out). Jets/Rubies
 was also my favorite, but my experience isn't a transgender one, and being
 queer isn't a uniform viewpoint.
 2. Maia's email:
 Amen.
 I had reached out to Jon in a private email, asking about whether the tone
 of the email was joking or not; I've received no reply.
 At a face value read of that email, it wasn't especially tactful or
 sensitive to anyone that's not cisgender and straight on this email list.
 Jon's email could be an attempt at humor, so, I'll leave that there, but,
 the email bothered me as well and I'm happy Maia spoke up rather than
 letting that be without any response.
 in dance,
 Julian
 On Mon, Feb 13, 2023, 11:07 PM Jeff Kaufman via Contra Callers <
 contracallers(a)lists.sharedweight.net> wrote:
  Unfortunately Jets/Rubies sounds gendered to a
lot of people: while "Jet"
 is a jemstone, it's also an engine, a plane, sports team, and a fictional
 gang, all more male-ish than female-ish.  And "Ruby" is a commonish female
 name and gemstones are more associated with women than men.
 There's also a lot of benefit in having terms with "L" and "R" to
tie the
 role names to the roles.
 It's definitely harder for experienced dancers and callers to switch from
 Ladies/Gents to Larks/Robins than to Jets/Rubies, but as someone who helped
 their dance switch over (and who considered Jets/Rubies at the time) people
 got the new terms pretty quickly.  It's a total non-issue at our dance now.
 Jeff
 On Mon, Feb 13, 2023 at 10:47 PM Amy Cann via Contra Callers <
 contracallers(a)lists.sharedweight.net> wrote:
  I LIKE THIS!
 I hereby nominate "jets and rubies" as the likeliest contender, far
 outshining my own personal fallback, suns-and-moons.
 And btw, I'm absolutely seeing "jets" in my mind as black shiny beads,
 not flying machines.
 On 2/13/23, Michael Fuerst via Contra Callers
 <contracallers(a)lists.sharedweight.net> wrote:
  jets/rubies might be the best solution several
reasons:
 (1) no relation to gender roles,
 (2) sound like gents and ladies, satisfying those who cognitively have
 difficulty associating larks and robins with the corresponding roles.
 (3) easier and faster to say.   Jets, unlike larks, has no hard 
 consonant.
  Rubies has a hard consonant "b", but
the sound of the "u" leaves one's 
 lips
  and tongue positioned perfectly  to utter the
"b". (This is a benefit 
 to new
  callers, who often have difficulty prompting on
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 Date: Tue, 14 Feb 2023 07:42:45 -0500
 Subject: [Callers] The Spiral Dance
 Greeting callers!
 I am calling a friend's wedding this weekend and she requested "the spiral
 dance," a circle dance where at some point one person leads everyone into a
 spiral (or, optionally, anywhere around the hall?). I think I've danced it
 before, but I'm having a hard time finding a name or notes on how to call
 it. Can anyone share a version with me?
 Thanks in advance,
 Hannah Chamberlain
 (outside of) Portland, ME
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 To: Hannah Chamberlain <hannahchamb(a)gmail.com>
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 Date: Tue, 14 Feb 2023 08:54:06 -0400
 Subject: [Callers] Re: The Spiral Dance
 Lisa Greenleaf lead a spiral waltz at my wedding.  If you are friends with
 me or Dan Vilter on Facebook he took a video and you could watch it. One of
 us shares it every January 5th or so.  It's a great video.  Lisa had
 everyone form a circle around us (bride and groom) she let us start
 waltzing in the middle before leading all the guests around us in a
 circle/spiral left, with her only holding one person's hand.  As the circle
 got smaller and closer to us she inverted the circle and spiraled everyone
 back out from the center.  Then she told everyone to waltz with their
 partners. It was a wonderful moment,  it makes a great video and it's
 really easy to do. Also since it's just walking in a circle it's easy to
 get everyone up to do it.
 Good luck!
 ~Frannie Marr
 On Tue, Feb 14, 2023, 8:43 AM Hannah Chamberlain via Contra Callers <
 contracallers(a)lists.sharedweight.net> wrote:
  Greeting callers!
 I am calling a friend's wedding this weekend and she requested "the
 spiral dance," a circle dance where at some point one person leads everyone
 into a spiral (or, optionally, anywhere around the hall?). I think I've
 danced it before, but I'm having a hard time finding a name or notes on how
 to call it. Can anyone share a version with me?
 Thanks in advance,
 Hannah Chamberlain
 (outside of) Portland, ME
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 Date: Tue, 14 Feb 2023 08:10:17 -0500
 Subject: [Callers] Re: The Spiral Dance
 Frannie, what a great use of the spiral!  I think of this move as an add
 on (as Lisa used it) vs a dance.  I will often use a spiral at a community
 dance and attach it to the end of a circle dance or a big Southern Circle
 Mixer... also great at weddings, private parties, etc.
 I start it by having everyone circle left and then I hop off the stage and
 lead the spiral as Frannie described.  The tricky part is at the end of
 unwinding the spiral you have to lead the group slowly in order to leave
 enough time for the end of the spiral to unwind before you get them back
 into a big circle left.  Once they are circling left again at the end I
 have them go into the middle twice with big shouts.  Sometimes I'll also
 have the whole circle rip and snort before the spiral.  It's always a hit!
 Casey Carr
 On 2/14/2023 7:54 AM, frannie via Contra Callers wrote:
 Lisa Greenleaf lead a spiral waltz at my wedding.  If you are friends with
 me or Dan Vilter on Facebook he took a video and you could watch it. One of
 us shares it every January 5th or so.  It's a great video.  Lisa had
 everyone form a circle around us (bride and groom) she let us start
 waltzing in the middle before leading all the guests around us in a
 circle/spiral left, with her only holding one person's hand.  As the circle
 got smaller and closer to us she inverted the circle and spiraled everyone
 back out from the center.  Then she told everyone to waltz with their
 partners. It was a wonderful moment,  it makes a great video and it's
 really easy to do. Also since it's just walking in a circle it's easy to
 get everyone up to do it.
 Good luck!
 ~Frannie Marr
 On Tue, Feb 14, 2023, 8:43 AM Hannah Chamberlain via Contra Callers <
 contracallers(a)lists.sharedweight.net> wrote:
  Greeting callers!
 I am calling a friend's wedding this weekend and she requested "the
 spiral dance," a circle dance where at some point one person leads everyone
 into a spiral (or, optionally, anywhere around the hall?). I think I've
 danced it before, but I'm having a hard time finding a name or notes on how
 to call it. Can anyone share a version with me?
 Thanks in advance,
 Hannah Chamberlain
 (outside of) Portland, ME
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 To: Casey Carr <casey(a)stmktg.com>
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 Bcc:
 Date: Tue, 14 Feb 2023 07:20:31 -0600
 Subject: [Callers] Re: The Spiral Dance
 The thing I learned from doing this is that the person leading the front
 has to take *very small* steps - smaller than a full step - or else things
 get stretched out and uncomfortable at the end.
 Good luck! It's a fun dance and people really seem to get a kick out of it.
 On Tue, Feb 14, 2023 at 7:10 AM Casey Carr via Contra Callers <
 contracallers(a)lists.sharedweight.net> wrote:
  Frannie, what a great use of the spiral!  I think
of this move as an add
 on (as Lisa used it) vs a dance.  I will often use a spiral at a community
 dance and attach it to the end of a circle dance or a big Southern Circle
 Mixer... also great at weddings, private parties, etc.
 I start it by having everyone circle left and then I hop off the stage
 and lead the spiral as Frannie described.  The tricky part is at the end of
 unwinding the spiral you have to lead the group slowly in order to leave
 enough time for the end of the spiral to unwind before you get them back
 into a big circle left.  Once they are circling left again at the end I
 have them go into the middle twice with big shouts.  Sometimes I'll also
 have the whole circle rip and snort before the spiral.  It's always a hit!
 Casey Carr
 On 2/14/2023 7:54 AM, frannie via Contra Callers wrote:
 Lisa Greenleaf lead a spiral waltz at my wedding.  If you are friends
 with me or Dan Vilter on Facebook he took a video and you could watch it.
 One of us shares it every January 5th or so.  It's a great video.  Lisa had
 everyone form a circle around us (bride and groom) she let us start
 waltzing in the middle before leading all the guests around us in a
 circle/spiral left, with her only holding one person's hand.  As the circle
 got smaller and closer to us she inverted the circle and spiraled everyone
 back out from the center.  Then she told everyone to waltz with their
 partners. It was a wonderful moment,  it makes a great video and it's
 really easy to do. Also since it's just walking in a circle it's easy to
 get everyone up to do it.
 Good luck!
 ~Frannie Marr
 On Tue, Feb 14, 2023, 8:43 AM Hannah Chamberlain via Contra Callers <
 contracallers(a)lists.sharedweight.net> wrote:
  Greeting callers!
 I am calling a friend's wedding this weekend and she requested "the
 spiral dance," a circle dance where at some point one person leads everyone
 into a spiral (or, optionally, anywhere around the hall?). I think I've
 danced it before, but I'm having a hard time finding a name or notes on how
 to call it. Can anyone share a version with me?
 Thanks in advance,
 Hannah Chamberlain
 (outside of) Portland, ME
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 To: Hannah Chamberlain <hannahchamb(a)gmail.com>
 Cc: contracallers(a)lists.sharedweight.net
 Bcc:
 Date: Tue, 14 Feb 2023 09:04:01 -0500
 Subject: [Callers] Re: The Spiral Dance
 I’ve done this often as part of the Grand March, I do it as the first
 “dance” of the evening. The only people who really need to know what will
 happen is the first few people - I typically lead the group, and either
 prompt the next couple of people as necessary or give them a heads up
 before the dance. I don’t often do it as a partner dance just so that
 everyone of all ages can join in, and let everyone know it’s a “follow the
 leader” dance. I turn on the music, start walking around and have people
 join onto the end of the line as I weave around room. Once everyone
 interested has joined, I lead the line in a circle around the edge of the
 room. Gradually I tighten the circle in a spiral formation until there’s
 just a small space in the middle - you do have to slow down as the spiral
 tightens to avoid too much pulling on arms. Once there’s just a bit of
 space in the middle, it’s a sharp u-turn for the leader, then spiral out.
 It is everyone’s favorite moment when it happens, especially if they didn’t
 realize it was coming! From there, as the spiral unwinds I lead around in a
 circle again until the next set of figures. I will weave in and out of the
 line without dropping hands as one move. Another is making arches - the
 first two make an arch, the line travels under and the next two make an
 arch and so on everyone has travelled under the arches and then formed one.
 At the point the arches “collapse” - the lead two people drop their arch
 and then travel under the arch themselves. Once out on the other side, can
 either transition to a move with everyone paired up or form up the
 line/ring of joined hands. When done with live music, once I’ve completed
 all the figures I drop hands and everyone gathers around where the band is
 and claps along until the music stops. Hopefully that makes sense! I can’t
 remember which book, but either Sashay the Donut or Listen to the
 Mockingbird describes some of the different possible moves. Google may
 bring up some different ideas and videos as well. 🙂
 -Jessica
  On Feb 14, 2023, at 7:43 AM, Hannah Chamberlain
via Contra Callers < 
 contracallers(a)lists.sharedweight.net> wrote:
 
 
 Greeting callers!
 I am calling a friend's wedding this weekend and she requested "the 
spiral dance," a circle dance where at some point one person leads everyone
 into a spiral (or, optionally, anywhere around the hall?). I think I've
 danced it before, but I'm having a hard time finding a name or notes on how
 to call it. Can anyone share a version with me?
  Thanks in advance,
 Hannah Chamberlain
 (outside of) Portland, ME
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 From: Jerome Grisanti <jerome.grisanti(a)gmail.com>
 To: Jessica Atkinson <thesewingmaiden(a)gmail.com>
 Cc: Hannah Chamberlain <hannahchamb(a)gmail.com>om>, Shared Weight Contra
 Callers <contracallers(a)lists.sharedweight.net>
 Bcc:
 Date: Tue, 14 Feb 2023 09:17:49 -0500
 Subject: [Callers] Re: The Spiral Dance
 I would add this it's important for the dancers to know to keep holding on
 during the spiral.
 Also, I often quip as the ball is nearing its tightest that "planning
 ahead wasn't always my strongest skill."
 Adds a bit of drama as people wonder, "how's this going to end?"
 Jerome
 On Tue, Feb 14, 2023, 9:04 AM Jessica Atkinson via Contra Callers <
 contracallers(a)lists.sharedweight.net> wrote:
> I’ve done this often as part of the Grand March, I do it as the first
> “dance” of the evening. The only people who really need to know what will
> happen is the first few people - I typically lead the group, and either
> prompt the next couple of people as necessary or give them a heads up
> before the dance. I don’t often do it as a partner dance just so that
> everyone of all ages can join in, and let everyone know it’s a “follow the
> leader” dance. I turn on the music, start walking around and have people
> join onto the end of the line as I weave around room. Once everyone
> interested has joined, I lead the line in a circle around the edge of the
> room. Gradually I tighten the circle in a spiral formation until there’s
> just a small space in the middle - you do have to slow down as the spiral
> tightens to avoid too much pulling on arms. Once there’s just a bit of
> space in the middle, it’s a sharp u-turn for the leader, then spiral out.
> It is everyone’s favorite moment when it happens, especially if they didn’t
> realize it was coming! From there, as the spiral unwinds I lead around in a
> circle again until the next set of figures. I will weave in and out of the
> line without dropping hands as one move. Another is making arches - the
> first two make an arch, the line travels under and the next two make an
> arch and so on everyone has travelled under the arches and then formed one.
> At the point the arches “collapse” - the lead two people drop their arch
> and then travel under the arch themselves. Once out on the other side, can
> either transition to a move with everyone paired up or form up the
> line/ring of joined hands. When done with live music, once I’ve completed
> all the figures I drop hands and everyone gathers around where the band is
> and claps along until the music stops. Hopefully that makes sense! I can’t
> remember which book, but either Sashay the Donut or Listen to the
> Mockingbird describes some of the different possible moves. Google may
> bring up some different ideas and videos as well. 🙂
>
> -Jessica
>
>
>
>
>
>
  On Feb 14, 2023, at 7:43 AM, Hannah
Chamberlain via Contra Callers < 
> contracallers(a)lists.sharedweight.net>
wrote:
> >
> > 
> > Greeting callers!
> > I am calling a friend's wedding this weekend and she requested "the
> spiral dance," a circle dance where at some point one person leads everyone
> into a spiral (or, optionally, anywhere around the hall?). I think I've
> danced it before, but I'm having a hard time finding a name or notes on how
> to call it. Can anyone share a version with me?
> > Thanks in advance,
> > Hannah Chamberlain
> > (outside of) Portland, ME
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 Bcc:
 Date: Tue, 14 Feb 2023 09:55:53 -0500
 Subject: [Callers] Re: Gentlespoons/Ladles (from Rompin' Stompin')
 Thanks for this Maia; you said it better than I can.
 And as I’ve said elsewhere, learning to teach/call positionally and
 adapting to dancing to Larks/Ravens has, for me, the bonus of creating new
 brain cells and possibly delaying cognitive decline.
 On Mon, Feb 13, 2023 at 9:47 PM Maia McCormick via Contra Callers <
 contracallers(a)lists.sharedweight.net> wrote:
  Happier days for some, but a lot of us, those
"haylcon days" were really
 not all that. Transgender people and gays and lesbians having to hide who
 they were, or not able to dance with (let alone marry) their partners for
 fear of retaliation, or having to go to their own separate dances to feel
 safe and accepted; women with no recourse if they were touched
 inappropriately or made to feel unsafe; and more that I don't have a gut
 sense for, not being part of those groups. For myself, I much prefer the
 current time.
 I'm sure it must feel jarring to experience this sort of contention and
 discomfort, but I promise this is only a fraction of what minorities and
 vulnerable groups have experienced in the dance scene over the years. I
 hope that folks who have mostly coasted through a dance world built for
 them are willing to endure a little proximal discomfort and change for the
 sake of the people only just finding safety and community here.
 I know email and especially large group discussions are a pretty lousy
 way to have discussions and convey nuance; if Jon or anyone else yearning
 for these "simpler times" is interested in having a one-on-one conversation
 about this, drop me a line off-list.
 Take care,
 Maia
 --
 Maia McCormick (she/her)
 917.279.8194
 On Sat, Feb 11, 2023 at 5:37 PM Jon Greene via Contra Callers <
 contracallers(a)lists.sharedweight.net> wrote:
  Oh those halcyon days when gents were men, ladies
were women, birds were
 birds, gypsies melted down, nobody cared how many jabs you had and you
 never had to guess whether someone was smiling or frowning at you.
 Sent from my iPhone
 On Feb 10, 2023, at 9:23 PM, ROBERT FABINSKI via Contra Callers <
 contracallers(a)lists.sharedweight.net> wrote:
 I look forward to a day in the future when the "quaintness" of the
 gendered terms will be used as a quirky theme for a dance evening, and
 people will think it's so old fashioned that no one will take offense;
 gendered terms will just be "the way it was a long time ago" and not the
 contentious topic it has been for the last few years.
 If that ever happens, the "Push Pa, Pull Ma" type dances with original
 will be pure gold!
 bobfab(a)aol.com
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 Date: Tue, 14 Feb 2023 10:32:20 -0500
 Subject: [Callers] Re: Gentlespoons/Ladles (from Rompin' Stompin')
 Hi Maia,
 The part of my post referencing role names was meant to be ironic ("when
 men were men ...") and was triggered by Robert's post about some future
 nostalgia. I'm sorry if I offended you or anyone else. I have no problem
 with any of the gender free names. Nor do I have a problem with "right
 shoulder round" apart from it being a mouthful and that callers no longer
 emphasize eye contact. But that's fine. I get that not everyone is
 comfortable with making eye contact with everyone else. Those who want to,
 do. Neither of these changes has in any way detracted from my dance
 experience.
 But the Covid part was not ironic. I definitely miss not being able to
 simply go to a dance without restrictions. And I miss seeing people's
 faces. But at least requirements like pre-registration, testing and mask
 wearing impose reasonable requirements on all dancers, even though I
 personally have chosen not to go to a dance that requires masking. But I
 believe that vaccination requirements are out and out exclusionary and that
 the data is at best mixed as to whether asymptomatic unvaccinated or
 partially vaccinated dancers pose any greater risk of transmitting Covid
 than asymptomatic fully vaccinated and boosted dancers, especially as the
 virus continues to mutate. Requiring that a person puts a synthesized
 chemical into their body is not equivalent to requiring that they wear a
 mask. And that's why virtually all vaccination mandates have been dropped,
 even by organizations like the Metropolitan Opera that caters to older,
 more vulnerable populations. It's ironic that this thread is all about
 making dances as inclusive as possible while some of the largest dances in
 New England exclude over 80% of the population (those who have not gotten
 the bivalent booster). It doesn't much matter what the role names are when
 you're not allowed to go to a dance in the first place.
    - Jon
 On Mon, Feb 13, 2023 at 9:47 PM Maia McCormick via Contra Callers <
 contracallers(a)lists.sharedweight.net> wrote:
  Happier days for some, but a lot of us, those
"haylcon days" were really
 not all that. Transgender people and gays and lesbians having to hide who
 they were, or not able to dance with (let alone marry) their partners for
 fear of retaliation, or having to go to their own separate dances to feel
 safe and accepted; women with no recourse if they were touched
 inappropriately or made to feel unsafe; and more that I don't have a gut
 sense for, not being part of those groups. For myself, I much prefer the
 current time.
 I'm sure it must feel jarring to experience this sort of contention and
 discomfort, but I promise this is only a fraction of what minorities and
 vulnerable groups have experienced in the dance scene over the years. I
 hope that folks who have mostly coasted through a dance world built for
 them are willing to endure a little proximal discomfort and change for the
 sake of the people only just finding safety and community here.
 I know email and especially large group discussions are a pretty lousy
 way to have discussions and convey nuance; if Jon or anyone else yearning
 for these "simpler times" is interested in having a one-on-one conversation
 about this, drop me a line off-list.
 Take care,
 Maia
 --
 Maia McCormick (she/her)
 917.279.8194
 On Sat, Feb 11, 2023 at 5:37 PM Jon Greene via Contra Callers <
 contracallers(a)lists.sharedweight.net> wrote:
  Oh those halcyon days when gents were men, ladies
were women, birds were
 birds, gypsies melted down, nobody cared how many jabs you had and you
 never had to guess whether someone was smiling or frowning at you.
 Sent from my iPhone
 On Feb 10, 2023, at 9:23 PM, ROBERT FABINSKI via Contra Callers <
 contracallers(a)lists.sharedweight.net> wrote:
 I look forward to a day in the future when the "quaintness" of the
 gendered terms will be used as a quirky theme for a dance evening, and
 people will think it's so old fashioned that no one will take offense;
 gendered terms will just be "the way it was a long time ago" and not the
 contentious topic it has been for the last few years.
 If that ever happens, the "Push Pa, Pull Ma" type dances with original
 will be pure gold!
 bobfab(a)aol.com
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 From: "Stein, Robert" <steinr(a)msu.edu>
 To: Jerome Grisanti <jerome.grisanti(a)gmail.com>
 Cc: Hannah Chamberlain <hannahchamb(a)gmail.com>om>, Shared Weight Contra
 Callers <contracallers(a)lists.sharedweight.net>
 Bcc:
 Date: Tue, 14 Feb 2023 15:58:25 +0000
 Subject: [Callers] Re: The Spiral Dance
 We have done this for decades and called it winding up the ball of yarn
 Bob
 On Feb 14, 2023, at 07:18, Jerome Grisanti via Contra Callers <
 contracallers(a)lists.sharedweight.net> wrote:
 
 I would add this it's important for the dancers to know to keep holding on
 during the spiral.
 Also, I often quip as the ball is nearing its tightest that "planning
 ahead wasn't always my strongest skill."
 Adds a bit of drama as people wonder, "how's this going to end?"
 Jerome
 On Tue, Feb 14, 2023, 9:04 AM Jessica Atkinson via Contra Callers <
 contracallers(a)lists.sharedweight.net> wrote:
> I’ve done this often as part of the Grand March, I do it as the first
> “dance” of the evening. The only people who really need to know what will
> happen is the first few people - I typically lead the group, and either
> prompt the next couple of people as necessary or give them a heads up
> before the dance. I don’t often do it as a partner dance just so that
> everyone of all ages can join in, and let everyone know it’s a “follow the
> leader” dance. I turn on the music, start walking around and have people
> join onto the end of the line as I weave around room. Once everyone
> interested has joined, I lead the line in a circle around the edge of the
> room. Gradually I tighten the circle in a spiral formation until there’s
> just a small space in the middle - you do have to slow down as the spiral
> tightens to avoid too much pulling on arms. Once there’s just a bit of
> space in the middle, it’s a sharp u-turn for the leader, then spiral out.
> It is everyone’s favorite moment when it happens, especially if they didn’t
> realize it was coming! From there, as the spiral unwinds I lead around in a
> circle again until the next set of figures. I will weave in and out of the
> line without dropping hands as one move. Another is making arches - the
> first two make an arch, the line travels under and the next two make an
> arch and so on everyone has travelled under the arches and then formed one.
> At the point the arches “collapse” - the lead two people drop their arch
> and then travel under the arch themselves. Once out on the other side, can
> either transition to a move with everyone paired up or form up the
> line/ring of joined hands. When done with live music, once I’ve completed
> all the figures I drop hands and everyone gathers around where the band is
> and claps along until the music stops. Hopefully that makes sense! I can’t
> remember which book, but either Sashay the Donut or Listen to the
> Mockingbird describes some of the different possible moves. Google may
> bring up some different ideas and videos as well. 🙂
>
> -Jessica
>
>
>
>
>
>
  On Feb 14, 2023, at 7:43 AM, Hannah
Chamberlain via Contra Callers < 
> contracallers(a)lists.sharedweight.net>
wrote:
> >
> > 
> > Greeting callers!
> > I am calling a friend's wedding this weekend and she requested "the
> spiral dance," a circle dance where at some point one person leads everyone
> into a spiral (or, optionally, anywhere around the hall?). I think I've
> danced it before, but I'm having a hard time finding a name or notes on how
> to call it. Can anyone share a version with me?
> > Thanks in advance,
> > Hannah Chamberlain
> > (outside of) Portland, ME
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 From: Luke Donforth <luke.donev(a)gmail.com>
 To: "Stein, Robert" <steinr(a)msu.edu>
 Cc: Hannah Chamberlain <hannahchamb(a)gmail.com>om>, Shared Weight Contra
 Callers <contracallers(a)lists.sharedweight.net>
 Bcc:
 Date: Tue, 14 Feb 2023 12:13:13 -0500
 Subject: [Callers] Re: The Spiral Dance
 Goes by lots of names, spiral, ball of yarn, cinnamon bun. Here's a video
 of one tacked onto the end of a dance (spiral at about 1 minute in)
 
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=315YYGc9C3k
 I'll note, you can go into it either by drawing the spiral tighter -
 everyone keeps moving the same direction (say clockwise) but you on the
 inside overtake folks by going faster. This is probably the easiest entry,
 and is what's shown in the video.
 You can, however, get in a slightly different way. Rather than drawing the
 spiral tighter, have the line leader make a u-turn so that they're facing
 back out as they draw the line. This means you don't have to go faster than
 the outside line to start winding it up, you can move at the same pace. You
 have folks immediately start passing each other face-to-face on that
 outside ring, and make a spiral of outward facing folks. When you exit,
 your outward bound line is facing in. The advantage is that it can help
 prevent the end of the line from having to really hustle along (crack the
 whip style).
 Either way: for a wedding, if you have the couple right behind you in the
 line, they'll be the first to the center. Jerome has his quip, I often say
 something like "this is your community, surrounding and supporting you"
 right before leading them out.
 Have fun.
 On Tue, Feb 14, 2023 at 10:58 AM Stein, Robert via Contra Callers <
 contracallers(a)lists.sharedweight.net> wrote:
> We have done this for decades and called it winding up the ball of yarn
>
> Bob
>
> On Feb 14, 2023, at 07:18, Jerome Grisanti via Contra Callers <
> contracallers(a)lists.sharedweight.net> wrote:
>
> 
> I would add this it's important for the dancers to know to keep holding
> on during the spiral.
>
> Also, I often quip as the ball is nearing its tightest that "planning
> ahead wasn't always my strongest skill."
>
> Adds a bit of drama as people wonder, "how's this going to end?"
>
> Jerome
>
> On Tue, Feb 14, 2023, 9:04 AM Jessica Atkinson via Contra Callers <
> contracallers(a)lists.sharedweight.net> wrote:
>
>> I’ve done this often as part of the Grand March, I do it as the first
>> “dance” of the evening. The only people who really need to know what will
>> happen is the first few people - I typically lead the group, and either
>> prompt the next couple of people as necessary or give them a heads up
>> before the dance. I don’t often do it as a partner dance just so that
>> everyone of all ages can join in, and let everyone know it’s a “follow the
>> leader” dance. I turn on the music, start walking around and have people
>> join onto the end of the line as I weave around room. Once everyone
>> interested has joined, I lead the line in a circle around the edge of the
>> room. Gradually I tighten the circle in a spiral formation until there’s
>> just a small space in the middle - you do have to slow down as the spiral
>> tightens to avoid too much pulling on arms. Once there’s just a bit of
>> space in the middle, it’s a sharp u-turn for the leader, then spiral out.
>> It is everyone’s favorite moment when it happens, especially if they didn’t
>> realize it was coming! From there, as the spiral unwinds I lead around in a
>> circle again until the next set of figures. I will weave in and out of the
>> line without dropping hands as one move. Another is making arches - the
>> first two make an arch, the line travels under and the next two make an
>> arch and so on everyone has travelled under the arches and then formed one.
>> At the point the arches “collapse” - the lead two people drop their arch
>> and then travel under the arch themselves. Once out on the other side, can
>> either transition to a move with everyone paired up or form up the
>> line/ring of joined hands. When done with live music, once I’ve completed
>> all the figures I drop hands and everyone gathers around where the band is
>> and claps along until the music stops. Hopefully that makes sense! I can’t
>> remember which book, but either Sashay the Donut or Listen to the
>> Mockingbird describes some of the different possible moves. Google may
>> bring up some different ideas and videos as well. 🙂
>>
>> -Jessica
>>
>>
>>
>>
>>
>>
  On Feb 14, 2023, at 7:43 AM, Hannah
Chamberlain via Contra Callers < 
>>
contracallers(a)lists.sharedweight.net> wrote:
>> >
>> > 
>> > Greeting callers!
>> > I am calling a friend's wedding this weekend and she requested
"the
>> spiral dance," a circle dance where at some point one person leads everyone
>> into a spiral (or, optionally, anywhere around the hall?). I think I've
>> danced it before, but I'm having a hard time finding a name or notes on how
>> to call it. Can anyone share a version with me?
>> > Thanks in advance,
>> > Hannah Chamberlain
>> > (outside of) Portland, ME
>> > _______________________________________________
>> > Contra Callers mailing list -- contracallers(a)lists.sharedweight.net
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 ---------- Forwarded message ----------
 From: Mary Collins <nativedae(a)gmail.com>
 To: Hannah Chamberlain <hannahchamb(a)gmail.com>
 Cc: contracallers(a)lists.sharedweight.net
 Bcc:
 Date: Tue, 14 Feb 2023 12:20:27 -0500
 Subject: [Callers] Re: The Spiral Dance
 I do this with the basic circle dance, let the band know what you are
 going to do though and be clear when you break the ring to lead the spiral
 that all others hold hands.  Kids esp love this.  I do a weave though
 arched hands and loop around several times before I take it to the very
 center and then loop back out into that big circle again. you can end the
 dance there or resume your original dance.
 Mary
 "And those who were seen dancing were thought to be insane by those who
 couldn't hear the music." - Nietzsche
 “Life is not about waiting for the storms to pass ... it's about learning
 to dance in the rain!” ~ unknown
 On Tue, Feb 14, 2023 at 7:43 AM Hannah Chamberlain via Contra Callers <
 contracallers(a)lists.sharedweight.net> wrote:
  Greeting callers!
 I am calling a friend's wedding this weekend and she requested "the
 spiral dance," a circle dance where at some point one person leads everyone
 into a spiral (or, optionally, anywhere around the hall?). I think I've
 danced it before, but I'm having a hard time finding a name or notes on how
 to call it. Can anyone share a version with me?
 Thanks in advance,
 Hannah Chamberlain
 (outside of) Portland, ME
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 ---------- Forwarded message ----------
 From: Julian Blechner <juliancallsdances(a)gmail.com>
 To: Jon Greene <greeneneerg(a)gmail.com>
 Cc: Shared Weight Contra Callers <contracallers(a)lists.sharedweight.net>
 Bcc:
 Date: Tue, 14 Feb 2023 12:20:51 -0500
 Subject: [Callers] Re: Gentlespoons/Ladles (from Rompin' Stompin')
 Hi Jon,
 I really appreciate you clarifying your email's intent and which parts
 were facetious and which weren't!
 Best,
 Julian
 On Tue, Feb 14, 2023, 10:32 AM Jon Greene via Contra Callers <
 contracallers(a)lists.sharedweight.net> wrote:
  Hi Maia,
 The part of my post referencing role names was meant to be ironic ("when
 men were men ...") and was triggered by Robert's post about some future
 nostalgia. I'm sorry if I offended you or anyone else. I have no problem
 with any of the gender free names. Nor do I have a problem with "right
 shoulder round" apart from it being a mouthful and that callers no longer
 emphasize eye contact. But that's fine. I get that not everyone is
 comfortable with making eye contact with everyone else. Those who want to,
 do. Neither of these changes has in any way detracted from my dance
 experience.
 But the Covid part was not ironic. I definitely miss not being able to
 simply go to a dance without restrictions. And I miss seeing people's
 faces. But at least requirements like pre-registration, testing and mask
 wearing impose reasonable requirements on all dancers, even though I
 personally have chosen not to go to a dance that requires masking. But I
 believe that vaccination requirements are out and out exclusionary and that
 the data is at best mixed as to whether asymptomatic unvaccinated or
 partially vaccinated dancers pose any greater risk of transmitting Covid
 than asymptomatic fully vaccinated and boosted dancers, especially as the
 virus continues to mutate. Requiring that a person puts a synthesized
 chemical into their body is not equivalent to requiring that they wear a
 mask. And that's why virtually all vaccination mandates have been dropped,
 even by organizations like the Metropolitan Opera that caters to older,
 more vulnerable populations. It's ironic that this thread is all about
 making dances as inclusive as possible while some of the largest dances in
 New England exclude over 80% of the population (those who have not gotten
 the bivalent booster). It doesn't much matter what the role names are when
 you're not allowed to go to a dance in the first place.
    - Jon
 On Mon, Feb 13, 2023 at 9:47 PM Maia McCormick via Contra Callers <
 contracallers(a)lists.sharedweight.net> wrote:
  Happier days for some, but a lot of us, those
"haylcon days" were really
 not all that. Transgender people and gays and lesbians having to hide who
 they were, or not able to dance with (let alone marry) their partners for
 fear of retaliation, or having to go to their own separate dances to feel
 safe and accepted; women with no recourse if they were touched
 inappropriately or made to feel unsafe; and more that I don't have a gut
 sense for, not being part of those groups. For myself, I much prefer the
 current time.
 I'm sure it must feel jarring to experience this sort of contention and
 discomfort, but I promise this is only a fraction of what minorities and
 vulnerable groups have experienced in the dance scene over the years. I
 hope that folks who have mostly coasted through a dance world built for
 them are willing to endure a little proximal discomfort and change for the
 sake of the people only just finding safety and community here.
 I know email and especially large group discussions are a pretty lousy
 way to have discussions and convey nuance; if Jon or anyone else yearning
 for these "simpler times" is interested in having a one-on-one conversation
 about this, drop me a line off-list.
 Take care,
 Maia
 --
 Maia McCormick (she/her)
 917.279.8194
 On Sat, Feb 11, 2023 at 5:37 PM Jon Greene via Contra Callers <
 contracallers(a)lists.sharedweight.net> wrote:
  Oh those halcyon days when gents were men, ladies
were women, birds
 were birds, gypsies melted down, nobody cared how many jabs you had and you
 never had to guess whether someone was smiling or frowning at you.
 Sent from my iPhone
 On Feb 10, 2023, at 9:23 PM, ROBERT FABINSKI via Contra Callers <
 contracallers(a)lists.sharedweight.net> wrote:
 I look forward to a day in the future when the "quaintness" of the
 gendered terms will be used as a quirky theme for a dance evening, and
 people will think it's so old fashioned that no one will take offense;
 gendered terms will just be "the way it was a long time ago" and not the
 contentious topic it has been for the last few years.
 If that ever happens, the "Push Pa, Pull Ma" type dances with original
 will be pure gold!
 bobfab(a)aol.com
 On Fri, Feb 10, 2023 at 3:03 PM, Rich Sbardella via Contra Callers
 <contracallers(a)lists.sharedweight.net> wrote:
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 ---------- Forwarded message ----------
 From: Katherine Kitching <kat(a)outdooractive.ca>
 To: contracallers(a)lists.sharedweight.net
 Cc:
 Bcc:
 Date: Tue, 14 Feb 2023 13:30:52 -0400 (AST)
 Subject: [Callers] Re: The Spiral Dance
 Can anyone suggest a video where the caller does lead the line under
 another part of the line?  And then plays around with arches?
 I was once lucky to dance it this way with Sue Hulsether (thanks Sue!) but
 didn't feel confident enough to replicate it, even after reading written
 descriptions.
 We *love* doing the spiral at the start of our dances since learning it
 from Sue, but I haven't been brave enough to do anything fancier than the
 basic wind-unwind, for fear of messing up with a large group of ppl on the
 very first dance of the evening :)
 Kat K
 ---------- Forwarded message ----------
 From: Julian Blechner <juliancallsdances(a)gmail.com>
 To: Shared Weight Contra Callers <contracallers(a)lists.sharedweight.net>
 Cc:
 Bcc:
 Date: Tue, 14 Feb 2023 12:31:07 -0500
 Subject: [Callers] Antivaxx stuff
 Just want to let folks on this list know:
 I'm entirely for choosing what you want to put in your body if it doesn't
 harm others.
 I also support (and help run) dances who understand that immunology _is_
 about harm reduction to the public.
 It's a complicated issue, absolutely. I don't think there is one universal
 solution for each dance series.
 However.
 I'm autistic, so are many callers, and so are many dancers. The Anti-vaxx
 movement in the US is heavily funded and tied to efforts that do not
 respect, patronize, harm, and ignore the wishes of autistic people.
 If your science isn't peer-reviewed and air-tight:
 1. Autistic folks and their allies will likely regard this as a signal
 that you don't care about them, whether that was your intention or not.
 2. It has previously been asked not to be in Shared Weight.
 So, can we please not?
 Julian Blechner
 ---------- Forwarded message ----------
 From: Louise Siddons <lesiddons(a)gmail.com>
 To: contracallers(a)lists.sharedweight.net
 Cc:
 Bcc:
 Date: Tue, 14 Feb 2023 17:53:35 +0000
 Subject: [Callers] Re: The Spiral Dance
 I’ve come to know this dance as the Farandole — a term that comes from
 trad French dance (as per here:
 
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Vb74ey_LVeg). For people in search of
 videos, the more specific term might help!
 Louise
 (Winchester, UK)
 ---------- Forwarded message ----------
 From: Erik Hoffman <erik(a)erikhoffman.com>
 To: Louise Siddons <lesiddons(a)gmail.com>om>, "
 contracallers(a)lists.sharedweight.net" <
 contracallers(a)lists.sharedweight.net>
 Cc:
 Bcc:
 Date: Tue, 14 Feb 2023 18:23:42 +0000
 Subject: [Callers] Re: The Spiral Dance
 I have led the “winding a ball of yarn,” for years at barn dances. Used to
 do it occasionally at a contra dance—though not since square and other form
 fell out of favor.
 Then I think it was at a Quaker Yearly Meeting in Wisconsin when they
 asked a local Native American Tribe to share their culture. There their
 participatory part included “The Snake Shedding Its Skin.”  The same as
 Winding a Ball of Yarn.
 Here’s a video of another Tribe doing a Snake dance ending with the leader
 saying, “The snake has to coil up.” I think the song for the dance is
 beautiful.
 Cheers,
 ~Erik Hoffman
   Oakland, CA
 *From:* Louise Siddons via Contra Callers <
 contracallers(a)lists.sharedweight.net>
 *Sent:* Tuesday, February 14, 2023 9:54 AM
 *To:* contracallers(a)lists.sharedweight.net
 *Subject:* [Callers] Re: The Spiral Dance
 I’ve come to know this dance as the Farandole — a term that comes from
 trad French dance (as per here:
 
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Vb74ey_LVeg). For people in search of
 videos, the more specific term might help!
 Louise
 (Winchester, UK)
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 ---------- Forwarded message ----------
 From: Erik Hoffman <erik(a)erikhoffman.com>
 To: Gabrielle Taylor <gabrielletaylor(a)vivissi.com>om>, Jim Thaxter <
 jathaxter47(a)gmail.com>
 Cc: Peghesley <peghesley(a)cox.net>et>, Shared Weight Contra Callers <
 contracallers(a)lists.sharedweight.net>
 Bcc:
 Date: Tue, 14 Feb 2023 19:00:21 +0000
 Subject: [Callers] Re: Gentlespoons/Ladles (from Rompin' Stompin')
 I don’t recall when I turned the Berkeley dance into a series that used
 non-gendered terms, but we accepted it was early in the rage. Prior to
 hearing about using these terms I used Men and Women. I didn’t use ladies
 and gents as I didn’t want to use terms that were historically class based.
 A dancer caught me in a private moment and after asking me why told me for
 him and friends men and women were seen as a gender, ladies and gents were
 roles, thus more comfortable to hear. I switched back to ladies and gents,
 realizing they had lost much of the class meaning.
 When I searching for non-gendered terms I found a list, a survey of
 non-gendered terms being used. I think from it came from Amherst College.
 The ones I remember were Jets & Rubies. “Jets,” I thought? Uh, “When you’re
 a Jet, You’re a Jet?” Or is it a Jet spewing contrails? No. A jet is a gem
 stone. Never knew that. Jets and Rubies didn’t work for me.
 Then there were Trees and Squirrels. I like that one. Used them for a
 couple months. Too lighthearted.
 Finally landed on Larks and Ravens. Lasted a couple years until Ravens
 lost favor and we went to Larks and Robins.
 I am glad it seems Larks and Robins are becoming the standard.
 When working in elementary schools, for years I used Red Birds and Blue
 Birds, so Larks and Robins fit quite well.
 I still use Gents and Ladies in communities that prefer those terms.
 Cheers,
 ~Erik Hoffman
   Oakland, CA
 *From:* Gabrielle Taylor via Contra Callers <
 contracallers(a)lists.sharedweight.net>
 *Sent:* Thursday, February 9, 2023 5:57 AM
 *To:* Jim Thaxter <jathaxter47(a)gmail.com>
 *Cc:* Peghesley <peghesley(a)cox.net>et>; Shared Weight Contra Callers <
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 *Subject:* [Callers] Re: Gentlespoons/Ladles (from Rompin' Stompin')
 As a member of the LGBT community, my view (personal, from talking to
 others, and from votes in local contra dances in Western Massachusetts) is
 it's very good to have a consistent term that isn't inherently gendered.
 After local debate and dance-specific polls, we've been using larks and
 robins/ravens here since about 2018, and I think it's been a big
 improvement over ladies/gents. Larks and robins are my personal preference,
 since it's what everyone here is used to, and I at least don't have enough
 bird knowledge to get confused about robins or larks having some inherent
 gendering. I don't have any cultural stance against positional calling, but
 the confusion of "lefts allemande right" seems a lot worse than learning
 new terms.
 Thanks,
 Gabrielle
 On Feb 9, 2023, at 13:45, Jim Thaxter via Contra Callers <
 contracallers(a)lists.sharedweight.net> wrote:
 Just a thought, but has anyone checked with the lgbtq community about what
 terms they would like to have used?
 Another thought, someone mentioned earlier in the thread that the
 terminology issue had been discussed thoroughly some time ago and the
 decision had been made to go with the birds. I don’t remember seeing or
 hearing about a general survey sent out to all the CDSS affiliates or any
 other general list of dance groups around the country or world vetting that
 decision
 Personally, I’m exploring positional calling. Just my gut feeling, but I
 think fewer people would be challenged by right/left directional calls than
 by being called bird names.
 Jim Thaxter
 Columbia, MO
 On Thu, Feb 9, 2023 at 6:31 AM Amy Cann via Contra Callers <
 contracallers(a)lists.sharedweight.net> wrote:
 Since no one else has mentioned this, I'll just say that my entire
 personal difficulty with birds comes from fairy tales and ornithology.
 When we say "robin" we are mostly thinking about that bird with the
 "red breast", right? Not something kinda reddish-brownish? That's the
 male. In my childhood I read any number of books with
 anthropomorphised birds, and Mister Robin Redbreast was male. In a
 bunch of the stories there was also small, sweet-singing female lark.
 Add to that that in the states the robin is a different bird from in
 the UK, and much larger, I've got two good reasons to think of the
 robin as being the "male" role. My brain weighs the imagery and
 memories against that silly little detail of starting with "R" or
"L"
 and defaults obstinately  to the exact wrong conclusion every time.
 EVERY time. It's somewhat maddening. But "Ravens" was even worse,
 because ravens are black and men in formal clothing dress in black, so
 I guess things are better now??
 Whew. Change is hard.
 On 2/9/23, Peghesley via Contra Callers
 <contracallers(a)lists.sharedweight.net> wrote:
  Bree, I’m making the same change as well and am
calling without 
 reference to
  role and don’t need bird terms. Louise Siddons’
position is a compelling
 one.
 Peg Hesley
 
www.peghesley.com
 Sent from my iPhone using voice recognition
> On Feb 8, 2023, at 7:04 PM, Bree Kalb via Contra Callers
> <contracallers(a)lists.sharedweight.net> wrote:
>
> 
> I made the same changes Chrissy did and for the same reason.  I think it
> was 4-5 years ago when I switched from M and W to Gents and Ladies.  And
> it seems to me that almost all the local callers did the same.
>
> ( Now I’m calling without reference to gender or role. Louise Siddons
> booklet “Dance the Whole Dance” from CDSS describes well what many of us
> are learning to do.)
>
> If it matters, my dance community is in a progressive/liberal area, so
> calling styles here might be different than in other places.
>
> Bree Kalb
> Carrboro, NC
>
> On Wed, Feb 8, 2023 at 8:18 PM Jacob or Nancy Bloom via Contra Callers
> <contracallers(a)lists.sharedweight.net> wrote:
>>
>> At the Ralph Page Legacy day last month, Chrissy Fowler did a session 
 in
 >> which she called dances as she called
them at different times in her
>> career.  In it, she talked about how, at one point, she and other 
 female
 >> callers were insisting on the term
"women" because they weren't ladies,
>> and then several years later they were insisting on the term "ladies"
>> because that was understood to be the name of a role.
>>
>> I can't give a year when it happened, but I do believe I remember a 
time
 >> when at least some callers were making it
explicitly clear that the 
 terms
 >> Gents and Ladies referred to roles, and
anybody could dance either 
 role.
 >>
>> Jacob
>>
>>
>> On Wed, Feb 8, 2023, 2:29 PM Tony Parkes via Contra Callers
>> <contracallers(a)lists.sharedweight.net> wrote:
>>>
>>> I believe it’s in Myrtle Wilhite’s Lullaby of the Swing and other 
contra
 >>> dances, tunes, waltzes, and essays
(Madison, WI, 1993). I can’t lay my
>>> hand on my copy at the moment, but perhaps someone else has one.
>>>
>>>
>>>
>>> Tony Parkes
>>>
>>> Billerica, Mass.
>>>
>>> 
www.hands4.com
>>>
>>> New book! Square Dance Calling: An Old Art for a New Century
>>>
>>> (available now)
>>>
>>>
>>>
>>>
>>>
>>> From: Mary Collins <nativedae(a)gmail.com>
>>> Sent: Wednesday, February 8, 2023 2:11 PM
>>> To: Jeff Kaufman <jeff(a)alum.swarthmore.edu>
>>> Cc: Tony Parkes <tony(a)hands4.com>om>; Joe Harrington
>>> <contradancerjoe(a)gmail.com>om>; contracallers(a)lists.sharedweight.net
>>> Subject: Re: [Callers] Re: Gentlespoons/Ladles (from Rompin'
Stompin')
>>>
>>>
>>>
>>> Jeff, me too...if you find it, share please.
>>>
>>>
>>>
>>> mary
>>>
>>> "And those who were seen dancing were thought to be insane by those
 who
 >>> couldn't hear the music." -
Nietzsche
>>>
>>>
>>>
>>> “Life is not about waiting for the storms to pass ... it's about
>>> learning to dance in the rain!” ~ unknown
>>>
>>>
>>>
>>>
>>>
>>> On Wed, Feb 8, 2023 at 9:58 AM Jeff Kaufman via Contra Callers
>>> <contracallers(a)lists.sharedweight.net> wrote:
>>>>
>>>> Aside: does anyone have a copy of the "I am not a lady" essay? 
I'd 
 be
 >>>> interested to read it.
>>>>
>>>>
>>>>
>>>> Jeff
>>>>
>>>>
>>>>
>>>> On Wed, Feb 8, 2023 at 9:54 AM Tony Parkes via Contra Callers
>>>> <contracallers(a)lists.sharedweight.net> wrote:
>>>>>
>>>>> Joe Harrington wrote:
>>