8 May
2024
8 May
'24
2:19 p.m.
Claire,
A dear friend, neighbor, long time dancer, and volunteer passed in
November. This was not a sudden death, but many people lost contact during
the pandemic, and those who've returned (in our community ) are largely
younger, and might not know this person.
When she was sick I put out messages to the local dance groups to let folks
know how they could help. There's only so much we can do to get the word
out, and some will just not hear before what feels like a sudden public
announcement.
I put out more messages about the memorial gathering and again some folks
didn't hear, didn't get to the gathering, and were sad about that, too.
This was not a caller, band member, or prominent person, so I don't think
there were announcements made at the dances.
At any rate, I think it's really hard to reach everyone before a very
public announcement. I can't think how best to get the word out. I tried
to let people know one-on-one, but I don't see everyone. I'm interested in
hearing what others might have to say about this.
-Amy
On Wed, May 8, 2024, 10:19 AM Claire Takemori via Contra Callers <
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Hello dear callers.
I have a question about when a caller brings up a recent passing during a
public dance.
When Kim Yerton passed, I heard about it the day before and grieved. The
next day the caller dedicated a dance to her and I almost had to leave the
dance. Left the line to get away from listening to the words about Kim. I
realize this is my own reaction and sensitivity.
Wondering what y’all say on mic about a recent passing and dedication, as
it could be a surprise to some dancers?
At a recent ECD weekend, the caller dedicated a dance to Christine Robb
and said to dance it with appreciation and joy as that is what she would’ve
wanted instead of grief and sorrow.
Thanks for sharing your thoughts.
Claire Takemori (Asheville NC)
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1. Tony Parkes 1949-2024 (Greenleaf)
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Date: Tue, 7 May 2024 13:26:02 -0400
From: Greenleaf <laleaf(a)gmail.com>
Subject: [Callers] Tony Parkes 1949-2024
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Caller Tony Parkes passed away yesterday with his wife, Beth, at his
side. He will
be missed.
At the lovely Tony Parkes tribute at this year’s Neffa Festival, Beth
spoke of how
Tony was touched and surprised that so many people were
telling him about his impact on their lives. Well, yes, Tony! He was a true
treasure.
Lisa Greenleaf
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Date: Tue, 7 May 2024 14:00:35 -0400
From: Mary Collins <nativedae(a)gmail.com>
Subject: [Callers] Re: Tony Parkes 1949-2024
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Lisa,
Thanks for sharing this. I am calling Friday and will certainly add a
Tony
aspect to the evening. His insights, support
& dance writing will be
sorely missed.
Mary Collins
"And those who were seen dancing were thought to be insane by those who
couldn't hear the music." - Nietzsche
“Life is not about waiting for the storms to pass ... it's about learning
to dance in the rain!” ~ unknown
On Tue, May 7, 2024 at 1:27 PM Greenleaf via Contra Callers <
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> Caller Tony Parkes passed away yesterday with his wife, Beth, at his
side.
> He will be missed.
>
> At the lovely Tony Parkes tribute at this year’s Neffa Festival, Beth
> spoke of how Tony was touched and surprised that so many people were
> telling him about his impact on their lives. Well, yes, Tony! He was a
true
> treasure.
>
> Lisa Greenleaf
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