Ricky wrote: "If a man should feel awkward dancing with another man, or a woman with
awoman, I would be disappointed."
Anyone who regularly attends a contra dance will have to learn and accept that they
occasionally will swing or gypsy a same gender person--in fact some dances explicitly
have such.
It is not any of your concern or business if someone feels uncomfortable by such
The obligation of anyone regularly attending contra dances and disliking such is just to
not show any displeasure for the the critical 4-8 seconds.
Such person can politely decline when asked to be a partner by a same gender person.
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