I start intro lessons in a circle, partner people off as soon as it becomes necessary, and
teach them both sides of the swing (by asking them to shift their arms while swinging;
this is partly about teaching them not to drag on each other). Then I say, your partner
might have a preference so you should always ask — and I explain that the preference might
be about an injury, about how they were taught to dance, or about balancing out their
experience over the course of the evening.
Obviously I can’t listen to every couple on the floor but from the mic it appears to me
that new dancers do then ask those they’re dancing with and over the course of the first
half the outcome reflects the character of the crowd more than individual new-dancer
preferences.
Perhaps also obviously to some people I do all of this without reference to role terms
except to alert new dancers that they may hear a variety of role terms from experienced
dancers on the floor. If I’m at a L&R dance I say explicitly that they might hear
larks and robins, and here’s what that means. (New dancers were not born yesterday and
they figure out the gendered role terms quickly if there are dancers using them.)
Incidentally, I find the claim Maia cites about the robin role being easier extremely
questionable. Do people truly generally say/believe that?
Louise.
On 10 Mar 2024, at 14:48, Maia McCormick via Contra
Callers <contracallers(a)lists.sharedweight.net> wrote:
Hey there, hive mind,
When you're calling larks and robins, during the lesson, how do you
a. explain the roles to the new folks, and
b. put the beginners into roles for the duration of the lesson?
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