Ron,
I was halfway through a long, researched response explaining why it is a
slur, why just because a particular caller hasn't been personally
confronted at one of their dances they shouldn't assume it's not, and why
the origins of the term, while pertinent are not the whole story on how we
should approach it today when Isaac, in one short paragraph, provided a
much more effective response than mine would ever be. In researching I was
pleasantly surprised by number of good references in the wikipedia article
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Names_of_the_Romani_people. I found it by
googling "gypsy usage as a slur" which also turned up a lot of useful
material.
I'd love to see your article when you're done.
BTW, I'm really saddened that the term "right shoulder round" has become
the standard replacement for gypsy. It's about as evocative as "modified
ballroom position paired rotation" is for swing and takes too long to say.
I really liked pixie when it was popular, just because I like the word, and
I like two-eye turn, though it doesn't make much sense unless you know what
a two-hand turn is, which many contra dancers don't these days. (Pixie
doesn't make any sense, but it doesn't purport to.) I've never tried
Look-See, which is appealing, but maybe too cute by half, and I fear won't
come across well on PAs. Though pixie and look-see are both phonetic
references back to gypsy. They just rhyme, so it's a way of referring back
to the tainted word. It'd be like if someone who was racist but didn't want
to offend people with the N word went around talking about "those jiggers".
Cheers,
Adam
On Tue, Oct 8, 2019 at 7:56 AM Ron Blechner via Callers <
callers(a)lists.sharedweight.net> wrote:
  I am working on a shared document, if only because it
takes a lot of time
 and work to educate people and I'd like a resource with lots of links that
 people can easily share. If you'd like to positively contribute, please
 email me directly contraron at gmail dot com.
 It's the 21st century. We're smart people who love history, right?
 "G*psy" has its etymology back to mistaking olive-skinned peoples from
 India and Persia for Egyptians. It's _always_ been a racial term, and it's
 always been a slang that was put on Romany. While some groups have
 reclaimed the term, this is not the majority, and, like f*ggot to LGBTQ
 people, or the N word to Africans and African Americans, the word simply
 isn't white people's word, even if someone has "given you permission"
to
 use it.
 When Cecil Sharp introduced it, so far research I've seen shows he didn't
 use "gip" it in the racial sense. It was a Morris dance word that had no
 roots in Romance languages. Sometime after in the 20th century, probably
 because of homonym confusion, other callers and dancers assumed it was
 "g*psy".
 Romancing nomadicism:
 So, y'all have Jewish friends, right?
 You all know the diaspora, and thousands of years of nomadicism by Jews
 was _forced_, right?
 You know that it was forced because of racism and anti-Semitism, and Jews
 have suffered greatly, culminating in the Holocaust, right?
 It's nearly identical to Romany oppression. Their nomadicism has been
 forced. They have the same myths, same racist stereotypes of baby stealing
 and dark magic. They've been denied citizenship and forced to relocate
 century after century in Europe. They suffered over a million deaths in the
 Holocaust.
 Why, then, would we romanticize their forced nomadicism?
 In dance,
 Ron Blechner
 On Tue, Oct 8, 2019, 9:16 AM Isaac Banner via Callers <
 callers(a)lists.sharedweight.net> wrote:
  Hey Jeff,
 Not **us** non-roma folk, thank you. My family on my mother's side were a
 part of the culture and none of us appreciate the folks telling us not to
 worry and that we don't need to be offended.
 Isaav
 On Tue, Oct 8, 2019, 8:10 AM Jeffrey Spero via Callers <
 callers(a)lists.sharedweight.net> wrote:
  But Isaac… isn’t that what people on BOTH sides
of the issue are doing?
 There are VERY few Roma in the contra community, and we’ve heard from very
 few overall on this issue.  Mostly it’s just us non-Roma folk arguing
 amongst ourselves about what WE perceive how a majority of the Roma people
 feel about this.  And that does apply to people who are both for and
 against using the term “gypsy” to describe a contradance move.  Aren’t we
 ALL saying what is right or wrong for people who are from another heritage?
 And now I am bowing out of this controversy as it seems never-ending and
 very divisive.
 Jeff
  On Oct 8, 2019, at 5:57 AM, Isaac Banner via
Callers < 
 callers(a)lists.sharedweight.net> wrote:
 
 Hey John,
 If the N word was also a move that somehow wasn't connected to the 
 slur, you
wouldn't dare argue that it's different or that you should get to
 call it, so drop the argument please. Just because you don't think I should
 be offended about the word and how it reflects on my heritage doesn't mean
 you get to dictate whether I actually am. I would ask you not to decide for
 others how they ought to experience and respect their racial identity,
 thanks.
 
 Isaac
 
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