5 Dec
2010
5 Dec
'10
6:52 p.m.
Greg wrote:
I was hired to call a dance and noticed, when I
arrived, that there
were only two other men in the room besides myself. When I commented
on this I was informed that the group who hired me was a local
lesbian club. They specifically asked that I not make any
accommodations, even though many of them were new to contras. I
believe that they made a point of NOT informing me of their makeup
specifically so that I would not try to dance around the gender specific terms.
It worked out very well. All had a great time, and
this in spite of
the fact that there were also two deaf dancers in the room as well.
Attitude is a key factor. I understand a lot of
dances were called
here in California at mining towns during the gold rush. The men
danced with each other and half of them played the part of ladies. I
don't think they ever asked for "gender neutral" terms. A few shots
of whisky probably helped as well.
All the references I've read to the all-male dances at the mining camps:
- don't mention contra dancing
- do mention wearing armbands to distinguish roles
- call out waltzes and polkas
so given that it seems to have been all-couple dancing and no called dancing,
there wasn't a lot of need for terminology.
(Incidentally, the gender-free couple dance is the only place where I feel
fully comfortable calling the roles "lead" and "follow" because
that's what
they are.)
-- Alan
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