Re: [Callers] First-time Contra Dancers and similar figures

Here Here, Jacob!  I'm a no thumb sort of gal.  Arthritis and general grip and grab lends to self-protection.  I can give considerate and dance worthy weight and connection with no thumb.  I have had bruises from the tight finger clench. I've been hurt with the twists and turns...   Erik, I also concur with the change of language on wrist "grip".  I tell new folks (not helping with the "regulars", sigh) to be conscious of weight in the "wrist style" star.  I demonstrate how connection is not shown when the hand hold stars are all over the place, and I show how the "weight" of the wrist style (I've heard wagon wheel?) is hurtful or counter productive to "connection".  I also point out height challenges and how to be considerate towards them.  Again, not helpful to the "regular" dancer that ignores all this. Also, I have talked with many who have developed, as I have, a shoulder/ neck problem.  This seems to come from inexperienced dancers or assertive regular dancers (not terribly good dancers) when they FORCE a turn, especially at an incorrect time.   I'd love to hear from someone how to describe to a dancer who wants to twirl what the correct timing is - can someone give me a good way to put this out there?   Laurie West Michigan