The sidecar swing hold can also be walked instead of buzz-stepped, if
folks want a little more elegance and a bit less gym class.
and I agree with whoever suggested waiting on the cake: people think their
job as a guest is done once they eat it.
I like to lead from a toast, with everyone gathered round standing, to
taking hands in a circle for the first dance, and then having the cake
after the third or fourth dance.
Background music during the cake eating, then a few more dances for the
die-hards.
just my 1/50 of a buck.
-Amy