Why don't the terms "lead" and "follow" suffice? Is there just too
much
residual baggage there? Because to me, it seems like the most accurate pair
of terms...
Maia
On Sun, Dec 30, 2012 at 10:47 PM, William Loving
<williamloving(a)comcast.net>wrote;wrote:
Hi everyone,
Tavi Merrill and I have started a very active discussion on the Facebook
"Contra Dancers" Group (
https://www.facebook.com/groups/2204574738 )
about finding a new pair of neutral, logical, easily assimilated terms for
the traditional Gents/Ladies terms as well as their variants, men/women,
lead/follow, bands bares, etc., all of which have various issues for
various people within the dance community. As Linda Leslie has already
noted in the thread,
"Larry Jennings once said that the person who came up with just the right
terminology was going to be responsible for the next evolutionary leap in
contra dancing. A great challenge that has been around for several decades!
Wonderful to see the suggestions! And debate the merits….."
There is another thread on the same group about the issue of gender or
role balancing at weekend events and some of the issues with the existing
terms are addressed there, but the main thread is about brainstorming new
possibilities and I'd like to invite you all to join in on FB or to develop
an additional discussion here. There have been many interesting as well as
highly amusing suggestions but there is a consensus I think that agrees on
the need for something:
1. Matches the one/two syllable form of gents/ladies, men/women, etc.
2. Sounds distinctly different for easy recognition
3. References Left and Right (for left-hand person and right hand person)
4. Is gender and connotatively neutral without a lot of referential baggage
So far, I think the best one we've come up with so far is
"Port/Starboard", which seems to meet all those requirements.
Sincerely,
Will
Will Loving
Downtown Amherst Contra Dance
http://amherstcontra.org
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