Okay....I had to finally jump in here. I've been reading
a lot of the posts from this list and other callers' lists,
and usually someone else has said what I would have
said, so I've remained quiet.
Now I realize that I have a bunch of opinions about this
whole topic (squares, contras, mixers, single-genre dances),
- be forewarned). I'm going to step out on a limb here and
give a whole lot of what are *my* opinions and feelings - not
necessarily anything anyone has to agree with or disagree
with, since they're mostly not facts, they're feelings.
Some background -
I don't call dances at the monthly (or more frequent),
what I call "circuit" dances - the ongoing monthly contra
or square or ECD or International folk dances. I did a
few many years ago, and then  discovered that my
personal enjoyment came from the community and
family dances (as well as historical dance programs).
What I usually end up telling people is that I am a caller
of "traditional social dance" or "traditional country dance."
Since almost no-one has any idea of what that means, I
get to follow it by describing it the way I want to.
My whole focus is to do a variety of dance styles - I'll have
dances combinations like a Virginia Reel, Galopede, at least
one International folk dance, a traditional square, a singing
square, and whatever else I feel that the particular group
who's standing in front of me would like to do next. I often
don't do "true" contras where people have to remember to
stay out one round at the top & bottom and change over.
I also don't usually run any one dance more than about
10 times through (depending on the dance).
My work often brings me to community organizations (girl
scouts, libraries, etc.), schools, family groups, fund-raising
organizations, and more. Since 99.9% of the people who
come to the event have no traditional dance background and
no pre-conceived ideas about mixing genres, I have carte
blanche to do any kind of program I'd like. I always have
an idea of what I'm going to do, but I don't have a set program
because I have to see and get a feel for the group that shows
up (I threw my pre-planned programs out the window years
ago).
I love the family and school dances because I can introduce
people (children especially) to the incredibly wonderful variety
of dances that fit under this category of traditional social dance.
And from what I've seen over the years - they love all the styles.
Maybe they like some more than others - but that might have
been the particular dance rather than the whole genre.
The only one I don't include is MWSD because I don't have a background
in it. If I did, I'd probably throw one in, if it were simple enough to
share with mostly beginners. (My thoughts about MWSD and traditional
square dance are for a different topic).
My personal experience has shown that, as with most things, how
you present something can make or break people's experience of
it. And, that if you love what you do, people respond to you. There
still is an unfortunate "group memory" of unpleasant phys ed square
dance experiences from early school days. For those too young to
have those memories, any of our types of dances slide into more of
an "old-fashioned" category.
Deciding what to call a dance has been problematic - I usually ask
the organizer NOT to call it a "contra dance" because contra dancers
would then expect a specific type of dance; I ask them not to call it
a "square dance" because of the many, varied pre-conceptions people
would have; I ask them not to call it a "barn dance" because around
here (Fairfield County, CT), they'll think it's hay bales & cowboy hats;
and so on. One time I asked them to call it a "traditional New England
country dance" and mostly we just call them "community dances" (which has
its own issues because it doesn't say anything about what kind of dancing
there will be). I'm mainly trying to not turn people off before they get
there and not create expectations (by using a term) that won't be fulfilled.
I figure that once people have experienced the dances, they can then decide
if they want to pursue some of the monthly, organized dances, and that what
I've done is give them an appetizer (or a buffet) - and they can go check
out main courses to see what suits them.
To get to a point (realizing I was about to go off in another
tangent)...there are many of us who enjoy a variety of dance styles,
both as callers and as dancers. And there are others who really only
enjoy a certain type. There's room for all of it! Though you will always
have some people who just won't entertain the idea of anything other than
what they want the way they want it. Some of those feelings, though, were
influenced, intentionally or not, by the callers and/or particular groups
of people who happened to come together in any given place. There are
people now and there were people years ago (more than 20) who would sit
down if they knew the next dance was going to be a mixer; or the next dance
was going to be a square; or the next dance was going to
be....fill-in-the-blank. Some people decided that after trying them out and
discovering they simply didn't enjoy them; others decided that because of a
group dynamic or a caller's attitude.
Having just been interrupted about 8 times as I've been writing this, I
apologize for losing the original train of thought I started with here...
My point is that for those who are leading community and/or family dances,
especially if you go into schools - please - give them an experience of a
variety of dance styles - I think that will go a long way in overcoming
some of the walls that may not be as solid as they appear.
There is such a huge need for our kinds of dances. I just did a community
dance for a Transition Town Initiating Committee - "grassroots and based on
creating inclusive conversations, encouraging neighbors to come together to
sustain and enhance their quality of life, the local economy and
environment". They were excited when they'd sold about 50 tickets. The
number of people who showed up was over 100 (the room capacity was 126, and
that was not for dancing). They had a great time - we did circle dances,
longways dances, square dances, mixers...and just about everyone stayed and
danced all the way to the end (we ended with La Bastringue with the
musicians in the middle of the circle). The committee who organized it was
still talking about it 3 days later. The opportunities we create for people
to connect, to touch, to look, to move together, is invaluable to our
society.
Respectfully submitted (though *much* longer than I originally anticipated),
Patricia
Patricia Campbell
Newtown, CT
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*                                             ~ *Samuel Beckett
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   4. Re: Contra / MWSD parallels? (Dave Casserly)
   5. Re: Why I call squares (was Re: Contra / MWSD parallels?)
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 From: Greg McKenzie <grekenzie(a)gmail.com>
 To: millstone(a)valley.net, "Caller's discussion list" <
 callers(a)sharedweight.net>
 Cc:
 Date: Wed, 21 Mar 2012 10:26:16 -0700
 Subject: Re: [Callers] Contra / MWSD parallels?
 Oh my!
 My last post certainly generated some heated responses.  I was admonished
 for “name calling” (there was none, from anyone here).  I was told I was
 “intemperate,” and one person even said, off line, that my post was
 “hateful.”
 All of this because I questioned the common assertion that something is
 terribly wrong with the modern contra dance movement because most of those
 folks don’t enjoy dancing squares?
 I did not imply that anyone is ignorant of the traditions of their own
 favored dance form.  I certainly did not say that anyone had a
 “horse-blinder focus.”  And I most certainly have never gone to any dance
 series, presented a dance form that I knew was not an appreciated part of
 their tradition, and then admonished those folks for not being “open to new
 experiences.”  That would be insensitive and inconsiderate.
 We all need to remember that this is not a zero-sum game.  I know that the
 vast majority of people will never enjoy dancing contras.  This fact does
 not diminish my enjoyment of them, nor does it diminish the contra dance
 tradition.  As a caller I am working in service to that tradition, and in
 service to the community.
 Times have changed.  In some towns there was once only one venue for
 dancing.  These days most dancers have options, and are free to explore any
 new experience they choose.  That is a good thing.  Dance callers should
 consider respecting the choices the dancers, themselves, make.
 Greg McKenzie
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 Date: Wed, 21 Mar 2012 14:00:38 -0400
 Subject: Re: [Callers] Contra / MWSD parallels?
 On Mar 21, 2012, at 1:26 PM, Greg McKenzie wrote:
  All of this because I questioned the common
assertion that something is
 terribly wrong with the modern contra dance movement because most of 
 those
  folks don’t enjoy dancing squares?
 
 Actually, no. "All of this" is because you missed the point. All of this
 has nothing to do with whether or not contra dancers enjoy dancing squares.
 The point is that modern western squares dancing took what some people
 think was a wrong turn that tended to make their events socially exclusive,
 rather than inclusive. Don Coffey is merely cautioning us not to follow
 that trend and go down a similar path.
 Note to Charles: I was president of NEFFA from 2008 to 2011. I can assure
 you that NEFFA and NESRDC do not snipe at each other, nor do they plan
 their festivals at times that intentionally conflict. In 2012, the
 festivals will be held one week apart.
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 From: tavi merrill <melodiouswoodchuck(a)gmail.com>
 To: callers(a)sharedweight.net
 Cc:
 Date: Wed, 21 Mar 2012 14:01:12 -0400
 Subject: Re: [Callers] Contra/MWSD
 This might seem to play right into "divisive", but hear me out: it's worth
 giving thought in the discussion to the reason some contradancers dislike
 squares. Now, i speak as a dancer/caller who has had loads of fun dancing
 traditional New England squares at Ralph Page Legacy Weekend, among other
 places, and aspire to master the NESD form and add it to my calling
 repertoire. Yet i'm acutely aware of the fact that many of my peers among
 the GenY contra community aren't as appreciative of squares.
 One topic that has come up in several of my conversations with mentors is
 the concept of "staying on the mic" (when it's no longer necessary to the
 dance) as a bit of egotism on the caller's part. Of course, squares and
 contras require somewhat different approaches; a square caller can't "drop
 out", and that makes squares less conducive to the trance-dance experience
 some young contra folk want to achieve. Additionally, in that
 square-dancing is associated at times with Appalachian and "barn-dance"
 traditions, it tends toward somewhat different musical ground than some
 contradancers (including myself) prefer. (Please note that these are
 generalizations, and glaring exceptions aren't hard to find.)
 BUT... a big reason why some contradancers feel (to put it bluntly) like
 squares are the plague? Perhaps because when we try to explain contra to
 those uninitiated in traditional dance, they ask "is it like square
 dancing?" And i, for one, shudder at the ensuing task of acknowledging the
 very close relation between the two forms while trying to negate whatever
 pop-culture caricaturizations of square dance have popped into this
 person's head. Please forgive if i speak from partial ignorance here, but
 it seems to me square dancing took the brunt of mass culture's evolution
 away from traditional forms, and those who want to see contradancing as
 "cool" and "hip" struggle to maintain a distinction between the two
forms.
 (see Don Coffey's "freight train/horse-blinder" comment).
 This is a good point to reiterate that i certainly enjoy squares. Jim Saxe
 put it nicely when he mentions (to paraphrase) bristling at the implication
 that callers choose squares out of motivations other than dancer fun, and
 lots of love to Chrissy for the "branches" analogy. It may be instructive,
 in smoothing relations between two grand branches of the social-dance
 tradition, to consider the more subtle underlying reasons for that
 "horse-blinder focus" in the hope that we as dance leaders can address them
 more fully.
 tavi
 
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 Date: Tue, 20 Mar 2012 12:38:24 -0400
 From: Chrissy Fowler <ktaadn_me(a)hotmail.com>
 To: shared weight <callers(a)sharedweight.net>
 Subject: Re: [Callers] Contra / MWSD parallels?
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 Oh hooray!  Divisive politics are my favorite!  (Not)  But somewhere in
 the SW archives I've already pointed out what a waste of time it is to
 point fingers and deride each other. So just a couple other things,
 starting with an example.
 On David Chandler's note of openness to new experiences, a year or so ago
 our dance series celebrated the DEFFA Board (DownEast Friends of the Folk
 Arts) and hired a fiddler and several dance callers who were DEFFA board
 members.  Given the expertise of the callers, the program included a 
 Czech
  mixer-Doudlebska Polka, an English Country
Dance-Knole Park, a Croatian
 dance-Moja Diridika, and several contras (mostly modern compositions).
  Because none of the callers considered themselves skilled at calling
 squares, there were no squares.  In some ways, this program was a first 
 for
  public contra dances in Maine.
 But (a) it seemed like everyone had a good time (dancers, callers,
 organizers, and even musicians who were asked to learn some unfamiliar
 music), and (b) it was still delivering our dance's usual fare -- namely,
 accessible, fun, traditional social dances, taught & prompted, and danced
 to excellent live music.  And on the plus side, we were also celebrating
 the varied contributions to the world of the board members who serve our
 local folk organization - board work that is done, as Linda Leslie points
 out, with "good intentions" and "for the love of the art forms."
 What I got out of David Millstone's original post was a cautionary note -
 asking us as dance leaders (organizers, callers, dancers) to be conscious
 of the perils of rareifying or stultifying our social dance traditions
 (making them so complex/exclusive or proscriptive/rigid that they lose
 their capacity to live on into the future in good health.)  So, I got out
 of it an exhortation to consider sustainability, but I also got a 
 reminder
  that we are connected inextricably to history -
this isn't some brand new
 movement.  It's got deep, strong roots.  And it's not a dead form.  It's
 got branches.  And quite thankfully, it's got richness of variety. 
 
There's
  something for everyone, thanks to the variety of
visions of the 
 organizers
  who make these dances happen.  But at the core
it's about participatory
 social dance.  And I say, the more people who join us in participatory
 social dance, the better.  (Even if you don't want to think about dance 
 as
  positive social change...)
 Dance on,
 Chrissy Fowler
 Belfast, ME
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 Subject: [Callers] Why I call squares (was Re:  Contra / MWSD
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 I'm finally feeling impelled to comment on this.
 The reason I include occasional squares at events billed as a
 "contra dances" is that I have personally had a tremendous
 amount of fun dancing them--much of it at events that included
 both squares and contra.
 I first got into the traditional dance scene in Pittsburgh, PA,
 in the early 1980s.  The events were mostly advertised as "square
 dances" but a typical evening's program might (or might not,
 depending on the caller) have included several contras as well.
 I believe most of the dancers enjoyed both.
 The squares I'm talking about, by the way, were "traditional",
 not modern western.  I'm sure there was an active MWSD community
 in Pittsburgh at that time, and probably there were a very few
 dancers who did both MWSD and "traditional" squares/contras, but
 it was for all intents and purposes a completely separate activity
 and community.  My intent in saying this is neither to disparage
 nor to praise MWSD, but merely to point out that anyone who cites
 anything about MWSD as a reason why contras and traditional squares
 don't/can't/shouldn't mix is engaging in a complete non sequitur.
 At the square dances I went to, we had no special attire, no
 need for separate lessons, and no recorded music.  [Yes, I know
 that not all MWSD groups require or even encourage the special
 attire, and that some MWSD events have live music, but going
 into more detail about MWSD here would be a digression from my
 main topic.]  The dances were every bit as open to the public as
 typical contra dances.
 As a new dancer, my experience of that mostly square-centric
 Pittsburgh scene was that it was as welcoming a community as
 I had ever encountered.  Dances were often followed by a
 well-attended gathering at a local restaurant, or occasionally
 by a house party where conversation and musical jamming would
 go on into the wee hours of the morning.  I don't think the
 community was particularly more or less eclectic than the
 communities of contra dancers I know of.
 I found that squares and contras each offered their own kind of
 fun.  These kinds of fun were different enough so that when I
 moved to California and found a thriving contra dance scene, I
 noticed after a while that I was missing the kind of exciting
 squares I had danced in Pittsburgh.  On the other hand, the
 kinds of fun and the skills involved in the two forms were
 similar enough IMO that a lot of the same people could (and,
 in at least in one community where I had danced regularly for
 several years, actually did) enjoy both in the same evening.
 In short, the reason I sometimes call squares at "contra" dances
 is that I believe they can add a special kind of fun to the
 mix.  I also believe that most other callers who mix squares
 with contras do so for the same reason--because they think
 squares can add a different, but not too different, kind of
 fun.  I'll freely admit that I, and other callers, haven't
 always succeeded in sharing this kind of fun with the dancers.
 present.  Certainly there have been times when I've chosen
 inappropriate squares for the circumstances, and times when
 I've ineptly taught and called whichever dance I've chosen.
 (I'm sure most of us have also had experiences from time to
 time with contras that were poorly chosen, poorly taught,
 and/or poorly called.)  What I bristle at are (a) implications
 that the fun I remember having with squares (including at mixed
 square/contra events) is a figment of my imagination (except in
 the sense that all fun and all memory are mental experiences)
 and (b) implications the I or other callers call squares out of
 motivations other than dancer fun, such as an abstract sense
 of duty to preserve historic traditions or some other notion
 of "making the dancers take their medicine".
 Regards,
 --Jim
 On Mar 19, 2012, at 12:08 PM, Greg McKenzie wrote:
  David Millstone quoted Don Coffee 
[Coffey]
  as writing:
 Modern contra dancing has become a mass "movement" with the energy
 of a
  greight train, but most of the young people who
so love contras?and
 contras
 only-- have no idea it is but one component of a larger, very
 wonderful,
 tradition. This horse-blinder focus rather reminds me of...
 
 Oh dear!  Here we go again.
 The square enthusiasts are putting forth another tome?complete with
 graphs
 and historical references? about how contra dancers are ?limited?,
 ?short-sighted?, ?narrow-minded? or just plain ignorant in their views
 about the dance tradition that they have loved for so many decades.
 This annual tradition of denigration would be humorous if it were
 not so
 insidious and insulting to people who have dedicated so much to
 building a
 new tradition that has made called dancing available to so many
 people who
 would not have otherwise ever tried it.
 Instead of repeating the old saws about how bad contra dancers are,
 our
 square dance calling friends might consider educating themselves
 about this
 new tradition that they seem to know so little about.  For those of us
 dedicated to holding open, public, contra dances for our communities
 this
 movement is much more than merely a ?component of a larger, very
 wonderful
 tradition.?  It is, in fact, an evolution of even older traditions
 and,
 perhaps, an alternative to the square dance tradition that has
 become so
 moribund and unavailable to the general public.
 For many of us, introduced to contras as our first social dance
 experience,
 one of the defining factors that drew us to contra dancing was the
 fact
 that it was NOT square dancing and it did NOT require that we attend
 separate classes to learn it.
 The fact is that contras are attended by a wildly eclectic crowd of
 people
 with varied dance experience and interests.  Yes, about half of
 those in
 the hall frequent contras almost exclusively (43% attend contras
 only), but
 almost 40% of those in the hall are enthusiasts of some other dance
 form
 and attend other dance forms at least six times a year.  About 20%
 of those
 in the hall are not enthusiasts of any dance form.
 (Note that only 3% of those in the hall attend square dances
 regularly.)
 Square dance calling enthusiasts should consider that the contra dance
 tradition might be something different from what you are familiar
 with, or
 from what you *assume* it is.  These open, public social events
 attract a
 different mix of people, have a different purpose, and require a
 different
 set of calling skills than many other forms of dance.   When
 callers?unfamiliar with the contra tradition?insist on presenting
 square
 formations while presuming to tell the dancers what they *ought* to
 enjoy,
 it is not surprising that many folks will decide to sit out.  It
 would be
 better to first educate yourselves about who is in the hall before
 calling
 one of these events.  Here is one place to start:
 I look forward to an ongoing discussion about the evolution of
 social dance
 and the great contributions it can make to our world.  That
 discussion will
 be most productive, however, if we start with a clear understanding
 of what
 it is that we do NOT know.
 Regards,
 Greg McKenzie
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 From: Dave Casserly <david.j.casserly(a)gmail.com>
 To: "Caller's discussion list" <callers(a)sharedweight.net>
 Cc:
 Date: Wed, 21 Mar 2012 14:19:31 -0400
 Subject: Re: [Callers] Contra / MWSD parallels?
 I think Bob is absolutely right about the point of the original post;
 it's to point out supposed parallels between this community and the
 square dance community of the 50s as a cautionary tale.
 That said, I wholeheartedly disagree with the parallels Don Coffey's
 trying to draw here.  I just don't see how standardizing individual
 dance moves has anything to do with dancing more duple improper contra
 dances.  For the square dancers, standardizing dance moves led to
 lessons on how to do particular moves and a less inclusory dance
 space.  Dancing more duple impropers won't do the same thing-- if
 anything it's easier and more accessible for beginners to learn dances
 that happen in just one formation.
 Modern contra dances, in my understanding, have less standardized
 dance moves than what people were doing thirty years ago (though
 perhaps not than what people were doing 150 years ago).  Moreover,
 unlike the square dance club community, we have a vibrant live music
 tradition that is showing no signs of erosion.
 As people on this list have discussed over the past few days, there
 are advantages and disadvantages to including forms other than duple
 improper in nightly programs.  But the view that a contras-only
 movement will lead to the decline of contra dance, the way the western
 square dance club movement declined, is in my view misplaced.
 -Dave
 On 3/21/12, Robert Golder <robertgolder(a)comcast.net> wrote:
  On Mar 21, 2012, at 1:26 PM, Greg McKenzie
wrote:
> All of this because I questioned the common assertion that something is
> terribly wrong with the modern contra dance movement because most of 
 those
   folks
don’t enjoy dancing squares?
 
 Actually, no. "All of this" is because you missed the point. All of this 
 
has
  nothing to do with whether or not contra dancers
enjoy dancing squares. 
 The
  point is that modern western squares dancing took
what some people think 
 was
  a wrong turn that tended to make their events
socially exclusive, rather
 than inclusive. Don Coffey is merely cautioning us not to follow that 
 trend
  and go down a similar path.
 Note to Charles: I was president of NEFFA from 2008 to 2011. I can assure
 you that NEFFA and NESRDC do not snipe at each other, nor do they plan 
 their
  festivals at times that intentionally conflict.
In 2012, the festivals 
 will
  be held one week apart.
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 From: Rich Goss <richgoss(a)comcast.net>
 To: Caller's discussion list <callers(a)sharedweight.net>
 Cc:
 Date: Wed, 21 Mar 2012 13:40:03 -0700
 Subject: Re: [Callers] Why I call squares (was Re: Contra / MWSD
 parallels?)
 Well put Jim!  I totally agree that dancer fun should be our main
 objective as callers. Or programs should have variety or the dance form
 will become boring.
 Thank you Jim.
 Rich
 On Mar 21, 2012, at 8:55 AM, James Saxe <jim.saxe(a)gmail.com> wrote:
  I'm finally feeling impelled to comment on
this.
 The reason I include occasional squares at events billed as a
 "contra dances" is that I have personally had a tremendous
 amount of fun dancing them--much of it at events that included
 both squares and contra.
 I first got into the traditional dance scene in Pittsburgh, PA,
 in the early 1980s.  The events were mostly advertised as "square
 dances" but a typical evening's program might (or might not,
 depending on the caller) have included several contras as well.
 I believe most of the dancers enjoyed both.
 The squares I'm talking about, by the way, were "traditional",
 not modern western.  I'm sure there was an active MWSD community
 in Pittsburgh at that time, and probably there were a very few
 dancers who did both MWSD and "traditional" squares/contras, but
 it was for all intents and purposes a completely separate activity
 and community.  My intent in saying this is neither to disparage
 nor to praise MWSD, but merely to point out that anyone who cites
 anything about MWSD as a reason why contras and traditional squares
 don't/can't/shouldn't mix is engaging in a complete non sequitur.
 At the square dances I went to, we had no special attire, no
 need for separate lessons, and no recorded music.  [Yes, I know
 that not all MWSD groups require or even encourage the special
 attire, and that some MWSD events have live music, but going
 into more detail about MWSD here would be a digression from my
 main topic.]  The dances were every bit as open to the public as
 typical contra dances.
 As a new dancer, my experience of that mostly square-centric
 Pittsburgh scene was that it was as welcoming a community as
 I had ever encountered.  Dances were often followed by a
 well-attended gathering at a local restaurant, or occasionally
 by a house party where conversation and musical jamming would
 go on into the wee hours of the morning.  I don't think the
 community was particularly more or less eclectic than the
 communities of contra dancers I know of.
 I found that squares and contras each offered their own kind of
 fun.  These kinds of fun were different enough so that when I
 moved to California and found a thriving contra dance scene, I
 noticed after a while that I was missing the kind of exciting
 squares I had danced in Pittsburgh.  On the other hand, the
 kinds of fun and the skills involved in the two forms were
 similar enough IMO that a lot of the same people could (and,
 in at least in one community where I had danced regularly for
 several years, actually did) enjoy both in the same evening.
 In short, the reason I sometimes call squares at "contra" dances
 is that I believe they can add a special kind of fun to the
 mix.  I also believe that most other callers who mix squares
 with contras do so for the same reason--because they think
 squares can add a different, but not too different, kind of
 fun.  I'll freely admit that I, and other callers, haven't
 always succeeded in sharing this kind of fun with the dancers.
 present.  Certainly there have been times when I've chosen
 inappropriate squares for the circumstances, and times when
 I've ineptly taught and called whichever dance I've chosen.
 (I'm sure most of us have also had experiences from time to
 time with contras that were poorly chosen, poorly taught,
 and/or poorly called.)  What I bristle at are (a) implications
 that the fun I remember having with squares (including at mixed
 square/contra events) is a figment of my imagination (except in
 the sense that all fun and all memory are mental experiences)
 and (b) implications the I or other callers call squares out of
 motivations other than dancer fun, such as an abstract sense
 of duty to preserve historic traditions or some other notion
 of "making the dancers take their medicine".
 Regards,
 --Jim
 
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