Dear Chris,
It is a tribute to this group that we want to try and do the right  
thing, and spending some time figuring this out certainly seems worth  
the effort.
Another perspective might also include the history of the number/ 
content of posts, not just the gaff that was committed recently. For  
me, posts that are overly long, or those that are particularly  
repetitive, can be a challenge. And those that are much like a  
"lecturing parent" can also cause some displeasure. After a while, I  
tend to tune these out, and any useful content gets lost as a result.
I guess that, much in the way that we would like our callers to "teach  
succinctly, clearly, and efficiently" when it comes to dances, I would  
appreciate posters to self-edit in the same ways. There are lots of  
ways that posters have done this successfully. I lost patience with  
Greg because he so often seemed to be lecturing the group, rather than  
treating us as peers, and often his posts were very repetitive.  
Because I lost patience, I had some "Greg fatigue", and gave up  
looking at his posts.
I believe another important issue to consider is that there was no  
real casting out; unless I am in error, I believe Greg chose to remove  
himself from the group. He could have chosen to stay, and to let the  
group know that he had learned something new and useful as a result of  
the controversy.
This really could be a teachable moment. Who does the teaching, and  
how it is done are now the focus, I believe. Your feelings are strong,  
so it is clear to me that we should have Greg back in the group. How  
that happens is the next challenge.
LInda
On Feb 24, 2014, at 2:29 PM, Chris Weiler (Home) wrote:
  Jean,
 Do you really believe that is what is happening here? The man was  
 chastised and offered a sincere apology. Do you really believe that  
 his "crime" deserves the punishment of expulsion? Or is it a  
 overblown response because he rubs people the wrong way sometimes?
 Put yourself in his shoes. You misspeak while talking to your  
 friends. The next thing you know, you're cast out of that social  
 circle with no chance of redemption. Is that a fair response?
 These are not rhetorical questions. I would really like to know what  
 you think.
 Chris
 On 2/24/2014 11:10 AM, jean francis wrote:
  ”The ultimate result of shielding men from the
results of folly is  
 to fill the world with fools." Herbert Spencer (1820-1903)
 
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