I quite like Alan’s tetherball pole, something I’ll keep in mind.
I’ve so rarely found anyone giving too much weight that I’ve thought the objections to the
term were theoretical rather than practical, but perhaps I’ve been lucky (or give too much
weight myself). It has occurred to me that “taking weight” is perhaps a better term, since
that better suggests something you’re offering rather than demanding.
When I teach beginners, the very first thing I do is teach giving weight, both because I
think it’s so important, and because I then point out moments where you can do it in all*
the other figures. For example, in a chain across, I describe the connection that the
people crossing have as they take hands and pull past as giving weight, awa a very
different giving weight in a well-done courtesy turn. I think calling all of that “giving
weight” is a way of getting across that it’s not just one thing, and that it’s really
central to the difference between dancing near others and dancing with others. And I’ll
tell beginners that if they’re good at giving weight, they can make lots of mistakes and
people will think it’s their own fault ‘cause they’ll assume from the good giving weight
that they’re dancing with a skilled dancer.
*Except wrist-grip star—possible to do it, and if you do you’ll hurt the person whose
wrist you’re gripping.
The trick I start with for learning it is to have folks in allemande position, and then
have them go around really fast while paying close attention to what that feels like in
their hand and arm. I’ll then have them do it again, starting out fast and then slowing
down (maybe slower than you’d actually dance it) while keeping that same feeling in their
hand and arm.
But the original question was about _improving_ skills—the specific thing for that would
be giving weight in a circle, something that so rarely happens. In my beginners’ classes,
I point out that a circle four is a really boring figure, _unless_ everyone is giving
weight; then it’s actually a pretty worthwhile figure. (It’s why grapevine step has
inveigled it’s way from club squares—it adds something at least a little interesting to a
(weightless, poorly done) circle four. I strongly discourage it, since it’s so much harder
(albeit not impossible) to give steady weight while grapevining.)
Read Weaver
Jamaica Plain, MA
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