Bob wrote:
I assume (perhaps incorrectly) that this dancer just
wants attention, and so
I might get frustrated, and then confrontational, if I had to deal with her
issues. Your way is the better way: to just change mikes and move on to
bringing joy to all the dancers. ... Bob
We're verging on the off-topic, but I have to say that what makes this dancer
into a difficult problem is that, in my estimation, she doesn't just want
attention. She sincerely believes in the health threats she's worried about,
and she believes she's morally obligated to try to protect others from them as
well. (This also turns her into a fragrance cop.)
I co-manage a dance camp; she checked with us about whether wireless mics would
be in use, and regretfully informed us that she wouldn't be able to come
because they were. If she primarly wanted attention, she'd come and then make
a big production out of staggering out with a headache.
(This person has also, in the past, been very helpful in providing rides and
hospitality, and put significant volunteer time in the dance community, so it's
hard to, like, ban her from camp just because she hassles people for wearing
fragrance. It's kind of convenient to be able to tell her that, yes, we're
using wireless mics, sorry, just not practical otherwise, we'll miss you.)
-- Alan
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