I have yet to meet the person who does not understand the principle of sharing
the weight in the swing when I practice this sequence with them individually:
with your partner: stand facing each other, hold crossed hands and then FALL
BACK. Don't move your feet apart! Feel the sensation of counterbalancing each
other! Neither weight nor height of your partner matter, the adjustment is in
the degree of lean - and it's different with each partner with whom one tries.
THEN - while keeping awareness of this feeling of mutual counterbalancing
intact, shorten the stretch between your arms until they are close enough for
the assumption of ballroom position. Then - bellybuttons smiling at each other -
pretend you're on a scooter: keep outside of right feet together - DON'T LOOK AT
FEET - and push off with left feet for your buzz swing.
The preliminary exercise of cross hand hold and leaning back are just to learn
the sensation of mutual counterbalancing, they are NOT part of the real swing.
I bet most of your learners have childhood memories of that buzz swing with
crossed hands and stretched-out arms...
Hanny, Danzmeestersche