26 Mar
2010
26 Mar
'10
1:39 p.m.
Barbara Groh wrote:
I think all you need to do is not put strong emphasis on the looking
at your partner aspect. Something like: "dosido your neighbor. Now
dosido your neighbor again, but time do it while looking at your
partner." A simple "while looking at your partner" takes no stand on
whether one should stare at one's partner to the exclusion of everyone
else in the world, and I think no stand is needed.
Jeff
I prefer to catch the eye of the other lady in a
"girl-power, isn't this
fun" way, since we usually start the move by passing by each other, then
quickly shift to my partner and smile - so much more community-friendly,
even flirtatious, IMHO, than the "I can't take my eyes off you" stare with
a
person who is, after all, usually not someone I...can't take my eyes off.
What do the rest of you think?
I think you've made an excellent point, but the trick would be explaining
all that in a walk-through without losing 3/4 of the room. Can anyone
think of a really succinct way of teaching that?