I agree completely with Tony, except…
 
I don’t think it is a good idea to use the terms “leader” and “follower”.
 
The only leader in the room is the caller.
 
For flashy moves either person can briefly lead another – e.g. twirling the end person as
you go Down the Hall in Lines of Four. That is gender-independent.
 
For much more on the subject please see: 
http://contrafusion.co.uk/LeadFollow.html
 
            Happy dancing,
                   John                       
                                    
John Sweeney, Dancer, England   john(a)modernjive.com 01233 625 362 & 07802 940 574
http://www.contrafusion.co.uk for Dancing in Kent