I have a somewhat different approach that I take when I do a short beginners'
session at my home dance. I think the most important things folks need to know
are the rules of this alien subculture into which they've stepped--
welcome, nice to see you here, thanks for coming early; we know the dance is in
trouble when we see just the same faces on the dance floor
format of evening: easier dances come first so don't watch
hall logistics: line up near front so I can give you extra help
social norms: experienced dancers whom you don't know will invite you to dance,
your tendency is to apologize and tell them you don't know what you're doing--
they already know that! that's why they've invited you to dance
We all learned through the kindness of strangers.
Overview of a dance-- you and your partner will go through a series of sinple
figures ** that I will teach carefully ** that involve you and a neighboring
couple; at the end of that, you're with another couple and then you do the same
moves, and so on.
every dance will be taught and walked through, sometimes twice, and I'm up there
calling out the moves so you don't have to remember them
reminder that there will be many helpful dancers on the floor eager to assist
you
demo of handy-dandy fall-back position when you're totally confused: smile, look
around you, and keep both hands extended-- this makes it easier for neighboring
couples to help you
repeat welcome
Maybe add to that a little something about no fancy steps needed, hum Arkansas
Traveler and demonstrate forward and back, and that's about all there's time for
If you have a few minutes left, use it to chat up some experienced dancers in
the hall and ask them to invite in the newcomers for the first few dances.
My 2 cents,
David Millstone