One other thing I had thought about doing in a workshop is to have a
   few people in each line with a red ball cap or a particular shirt or
   some other identifying mark, and challenge folks in the workshop to
   make sure that they're not swapping when they get to those particular
   people in the line.  At regular dances, I have particular local dancers
   that I know don't react well to switching parts -- mostly because it
   confuses them -- and I try to switch back when I see them coming.  I
   also attempt (mostly successfully) to make sure that I don't switch
   parts when one of the folks in the next couple is a new dancer.  The
   partner swing is a nice time to look ahead to see who the next couple
   is and quickly switch back if needed.
   Jack
   At 09:36 AM 9/11/2009, you wrote:
     Following up on Mark Galipeau's note:
     In a workshop, it may be good to offer a little context on when
     gender-role-swapping is appropriate (or inappropriate). For example,
     at most
     dance weekends your neighbors will welcome or at least understand.
     At many
     monthly dances, there are neighbors who may become confused either
     because
     they are new, rigidly devoted to traditional gender roles, or any
     number of
     other reasons. Some may even try to correct us (if they don't know
     us).
     Before swapping, I look ahead in the line to be sure that our next
     neighbors
     will be part of the "game" and not put off by it.
     (Mark indicates the idea of there being a time and a place for this,
     I
     merely offer an additional tip).
     --Jerome
 
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 Date: Wed, 9 Sep 2009 15:27:15 -0700 (PDT)
 From: Mark Galipeau <red72impala(a)yahoo.com>
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 Subject: Re: [Callers] Gender Swapping
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 If the group is alert, what my dance partners and I occasionally 
     enjoy, is
  memorizing both roles in the dance, then each
iteration when there 
     is a
  swing your partner, we swap gender roles.
 ie: first swing I lead, then the next time we come back to swing 
     my partner
  immediately takes the lead role and swings me.? Some
dances are 
     challenging
  and if the grey matter is slow, or it is late in the
evening this 
     can really
  snafu the line.
 ?
 Chris Ricciotti has a great web resouce on Gender Free Contra on 
     this web
  site.
 [
1]http://www.lcfd.org/Articles/GFManual/index.html
 ?
 Mark Galipeau
 Queer Contra Dancer
 We swing both ways, and then some.
 
     --
     Jerome Grisanti
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   1. 
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   2. 
http://www.jeromegrisanti.com/
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