Ron I apologize for saying that. It was not
necessary.
If you'll still speak to me i want you to know that Donna has said exactly
what I was thinking. So I would be interested in seeing what you have to
say.
Tom
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On Mar 29, 2018, at 3:01 PM, Ron Blechner via Callers <
callers(a)lists.sharedweight.net> wrote:
Really don't appreciate name calling on this list.
On Wed, Mar 28, 2018, 7:22 PM Alexandra Deis-Lauby via Callers <
callers(a)lists.sharedweight.net> wrote:
Thanks Dave!
I too have that reaction whenever a caller brings up controversy about
terminology.
On the flip side, when an older caller tries to adapt pronouns and such
without making a big deal of it, it’s awesome, even when they make
mistakes.
Sent from my iPhone
On Mar 28, 2018, at 5:29 PM, Tom Hinds via Callers <
callers(a)lists.sharedweight.net> wrote:
Here was my issue, briefly : I was told to use "walk around" when
calling at glen echo. It also happens that I'm a western square caller and
have used "walk around your corner, see saw your taw" for decades.
It has happened on two occasions when I have mixed up square dance calls
from one time period into another or from one tradition to another and have
confused the dancers a tad and made them think perhaps I'm an idiot.
As far as gypsy is concerned I'd use ANY call as a substitute but not
walk around out of fear of saying the wrong thing by habit. Perhaps it's
remote that it would happen but I'm going to avoid looking liking an idiot
at all costs!
Being given that rule by the organizer made my planning for that dance a
nightmare. Do I use dances without gypsies? I mean it really through a
wrench into the way I usually plan because to follow their rule and protect
myself I'd have to eliminate far too many good dances to keep from using
gypsy.
And there are more rules that I have to follow or address that I'd rather
not, like leaving a couple out at the top when the music ends.
As far as being sarcastic NO I'm not that kind of person. I simply
thought Ron was being a bully so I wanted to know where he stood. There
are a number of us out there that associate PC with a threat to our
freedoms and I'm not a conservative. Sure I can look up things on the
computer and you think I'm being sarcastic because I didn't, but we're
different. I hate computers and only use them when I have to. I value
clear communication and if you carefully read my email you'll see that's
what I was asking for. On several of Ron's emails I see there are a good
number of dots that weren't being connected so I wondered what was going on.
As far as my attitude at Glen Echo is concerned you are reading into it.
If you want to continue this perhaps just between us is the best way. And
here we go, Tom is confused again. Why are you replying for Ron?
Tom
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