Here is one I have used:
"Ladies and Gentlemen: After this dance we will be taking a short break. If you have
any concerns about anything happening in the dance hall please let me know during the
break."
I feel it is important for the caller to take responsibility for receiving the feedback
directly.
- Greg McKenzie
-----Original Message-----
From: Chris Weiler <chris.weiler(a)weirdtable.org>
Sent: May 14, 2008 6:02 PM
To: Caller's discussion list <callers(a)sharedweight.net>
Subject: Re: [Callers] Style/safety/etiquette tips from the microphone
Thank you everyone for your contributions. I would like to compile more
suggestions, however. I'll take a stab at remembering a few I've heard
from the floor. (apologies to Lisa Greenleaf and other callers if I
misremember some of them)
- The hall is crowded tonight, take care of each other
- Allemande: curl your fingers around the base of your partner's thumb
and gently pull straight back; the wrist does not bend.
- During the swing, each person's back is vertical and is supporting
their own weight. Ladies can help by putting their left hand behind the
gent's shoulder to support themselves.
- Leading a twirl is a suggestion, not a command
- Talk to each other - let your partner know if what they're doing is
uncomfortable or painful and what they can do to make dancing with them
more pleasurable.
- Everyone has the right to say "no thank you" when asked to dance and
then dance with someone else
- Ladies, if you are being held too close in the swing, put your palm
against the front of his shoulder and push
Maybe some things that should be said from the microphone occasionally:
- If you're having an unpleasant dance experience with your partner, you
can drop out at either the top or bottom of the set before the dance is over
- Feel free to talk to one of the organizers or the person minding the
cash box if you have a problem with another dancer
I look forward to your feedback.
Chris Weiler
Goffstown, NH