On 10/25/2012 9:41 AM, Greg McKenzie wrote:
I use the optional newcomers orientation, explicit
instructions, careful
programming, clear and precise calling, as well as many implied messages to
make it clear that integration of first-timers is not only essential but
also fun. Very rarely I will see a couple of first-timers dancing
exclusively with each other. But this occurs only after they have ignored
multiple explicit and implied instructions and have fended off several
attempts by regulars to partner with them. In that case I will intervene
myself, personally, on the dance floor, approach the couple, and explain
the nature of our dance event. That has always had the desired effect.
What do you say to folks who have ignored or brushed off every other
attempt to effectively encourage them to partner with other dancers?
I'm curious what you say that doesn't get said in the orientation, and
if it works when you say it later, why not just say it during orientation?
Kalia