Martha Edwards said:
It might be reasonable to eliminate as many gendered
terms as possible, but
when we just can't avoid it ("Gents allemande", or "ladies
chain") why don't
we all just relax and not worry about it?
True sensitivity to gender issues goes a lot deeper than just man/woman,
gay/lesbian. In addition to sexual preference, there's biology, which can
occasionally be indeterminate, and there are people whose gender identity
does not match their assigned gender. It seems to me that we can just dance
these old (and new) dances, making it clear that anyone is welcome to dance
any part, and that their gender does not have to match the calls of the
dance, and so long as the attentions are welcome, they may flirt with
whomever they please. (Straight, gay, lesbian, bi, or other...)
M
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Ron Nelson responds:
Well said, Martha!