Here's a thought I've been toying with for a while:
A term we use in knitting to identify which way yarn twists is "N-wise or
Z-wise"
(think of a piece of yarn, look at the slanty lines the plies make, look at
the center slashes of an N, then a Z. See it?)
How many moves could be identified this way?
"Facing up and down, the first corners on the N diagonal, allemande once and
a half."
"Facing across, Z diagonals start a hey by the left"
"Facing across, N's diagonal chain"
As one who's life has been a little gender-role-freeish, I feel politically
entitled to come out and say I DON't like the band/bare thing, just because
the verbiage is less than euphonious to my ears. That said, I don't have any
better ideas .... yet. But I'm thinking, I'm thinking.
In many dances the roles of the "gent" and "lady" are NOT the same --
one is
a little  more active, one is more reactive.
In any given pair of people, one PERson is often more active than the other.
It's the interplay of these two things (when do they match, support each
other? When do they work in opposition?) that make dances so unexpectedly
yummy.
There must be a way to acknowledge and embrace this -- if we get too neutral
we'll lose the story lines that make some of our best dances come to life.
Hmmm.
On Fri, Dec 3, 2010 at 3:29 PM, Martha Edwards <meedwards(a)westendweb.com>wrote;wrote:
  As always, Alan, your wisdom astounds.
 I'd probably like "bands and bares" if I (still) lived in Jamaica Plain,
 which I did from about 1978 to, oh, 1985 or so, BUT...
 But (she whined) I'm just not used to it, and it seems so...weird. Sigh.
 But I've gotten used to weirder things, so maybe there's hope for this one
 as well. I'll try to catch a JP dance or two next time I'm in Boston.
 M
 E
 On Fri, Dec 3, 2010 at 1:17 AM, Alan Winston - SSRL Central Computing <
 winston(a)slac.stanford.edu> wrote:
  Martha wrote:
  If we callers can get used to "right
line" and "left line" being 
 backwards
 > from the way we view it, that might work. I rather like the idea of
 > architectural details being an indicator (in our hall it would be 
"street
  > side" and "naked lady side",
named for the lovely head/bust statues 
 which
   adorn the
fireplace on the other side of the hall). 
 I've been calling gender-free English sporadically for about 10 years, 
  most
  recently in Jamaica Plain this September.  Doing
this teaches you to 
 think
  about the dances globally.  There's all kinds
of not-that-old dance
 instructions which say "first man turns second woman", which, first,
 implies
 active man and passive woman when we don't want to dance that way, and
 second,
 has a lot of syllables.  "First corners turn right hand", and you've
 directed
 both to actively do something.
 In English, there are a lot of dances where both members of a couple are
 doing
 the same thing, and you can nicely get through all the instructions with
 "1s",
 "2s", "1st corners", "2nd corners".  For gender-free, I
usually try to
 program
 mostly dances where I can do that.
 But there are some lovely dances where you can't do that, and nobody 
 seems
  to
 have much trouble with identifying lines by landmarks.  In Jamaica Plain,
 it's
 the clock and the window.
 So life is good on the gender-free English side.  Nobody needs to wear a
 marker, you belong to the couple you're lined up in, you're on the side 
you
  stood on this time - and the roles are very
similar, and nobody feels the
 need
 to swap during the dance, but if they did, it wouldn't be very confusing
 because there's no expectation of a particular gender in a particular 
 side.
  (And, indeed, even gendered English skews so much
more female that people
 largely get over expecting plumbing that matches the role.)
 I think things are different in modern contra choreography.  Because so
 many of
 the dances are improper and the roles are typically different (although 
 men
  can
 get chained), it's often helpful to have some kind of signifier.
 Line up for an improper contra.  The 'nominal men' are in second corner
 places,
 the 'nominal women' are in first corner places.  "Clocks" would be
first
 woman
 and second man, which is not so useful - typically if they're going to do
 something, the windows are going to do it too, in modern contra dancing, 
 so
  you
 might as well say "neighbors balance and swing" and get on with it.
 Heather and Rose english/scottish style would have you say "right file" 
for
  *that* line and "left file" for *that*
line, which sometimes degenerates 
 to
  "righties" and "lefties". 
Too many syllables, requires knowing right 
 from
  left, requires remembering which line you were in
when the dance started,
 etc.
 So I don't think that the geographical suggestion is any help for contra,
 and I
 don't think that the suggestion that people should just deal with whoever
 they
 come across and not fuss about what sex they're supposed to be (which I
 heartily endorse!) is actually any help with solving the problem that
 "bands"
 and "bares" solves.  The idea is to have a clear way to assign a role,
 which
 role doesn't have a sex-linked component, so people know where they 
 should
  be
 standing in an improper contra, and so they know who the caller is 
 talking
  to.
 This also gives the caller _some_ chance of being able to see if the 
 right
  people are in the right places, which you
don't get without external
 markers.
 If you want to dance the band role one dance and the bare arm the next, 
 you
  take off the armband.  If you want to switch
roles with your partner in 
 the
  middle of the dance, you can trade the band.
 So *for gender-free contra dance*, bands and bares - put on by the dancer
 themself, by conscious decision, for each dance - make lots of sense, 
 don't
  enforce gender roles like a tie or a fedora or a
head-scarf, don't push 
 the
  agenda down the throat as much as arbitrary
designations ("hippos and
 butterflies"), and are overall a Good Thing that Really Works.  Honest.
  I've
 seen it.
 While I'm pontificating:
 While I support the right of people to change roles in the middle of the
 dance
 at gendered contra if they want to, and think everybody ought to just 
 swing
  whoever they get (if you're dancing a
woman's role at the moment you 
 ought
  to
 take the woman's position in the swing), I also think people who insist 
 on
  doing that when it freaks out their neighbors are
valuing their own fun
 more
 highly than the comfort of other people there and are behaving in an
 anti-communitarian way - which is their perfect right, but it's not an
 unalloyed good.
 And some of the people who are freaked out are freaked out because if
 somebody
 they're not expecting comes at them they think somebody (maybe them) are 
 in
  the
 wrong place and their anxiety level goes up.  Not homophobia - just 
 hanging
  onto the dance by their fingernails.  That's
a good thing to be aware of
 when
 you're swapping sides in gendered contra land.
 -- Alan
 
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 For the good are always the merry,
 Save by an evil chance,
 And the merry love the fiddle
 And the merry love to dance. ~ William Butler Yeats
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