Ooh, respectfully, _hard disagree_ with "calling next to them". That's a
fast way to make many people feel singled out. While some may take it in
the spirit of helping, many others will feel pressure to "do it right".
Honestly, I cringe a little when I see callers jump off the stage and try
and do this.
Sincerely,
Julian Blechner
He/Him
Western Massachusetts
On Tue, Aug 5, 2025, 2:31 PM Gregory via Contra Callers <
contracallers(a)lists.sharedweight.net> wrote:
  I had this happen to me just recently at our monthly
contra dance, except
 it was, perhaps, worse in that the music had already started, and the other
 dancers were so enthusiastic that they just invited the walk-ups to join in
 before I even knew what was going on. We were in a public outdoor space.
 Suffice it to say, it did not work and they dropped out minutes later. And
 that actually is the worst part - if they had a better introduction, they
 might not have been turned off.
 It's a bit mind boggling to think of people who have never done this dance
 before assuming they can jump in with no instruction.
 I have considered some signage, facing out toward would-be new dancers,
 with wording such as
    - You can join in *on the next walkthrough*/*teaching segment*
    - Our dance mentors will be happy to partner with you!
    - It's easy, but you still need to learn the basics!
    - etc.
 Also consider whether your regular dancing group is there to dance and
 would be chagrinned if dances broke down regularly as a result of
 incorporating too high a percentage of new dancers, or if they're more
 interested in sharing the dance with others than getting in 6-7 contras for
 exercise. Sometimes letting it happen, even if it breaks down, can be the
 best thing for the group.
 Some other ideas:
    1. State a rule that if they're going to join, we'll have to do the
    walkthrough again, then ask the dancers that already did the walkthrough if
    they're comfortable doing it again - you don't have to bear the
    responsibility for the whole group's experience.
    2. Institute mentor dancers, as has worked well for the local English
    group, which are identified by some pin, hat, or sash, and insist that
    people who have never danced before partner with them.
    3. Get a headset mic and call directly beside them so you can also use
    arm movements to show them where to go.
 Best,
 Greg from Winnipeg
 P.S. Newbie bombs is such a good word for this phenomenon.
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 On Tuesday, August 5th, 2025 at 11:07 AM, Gregory Frock via Contra Callers
 <contracallers(a)lists.sharedweight.net> wrote:
 Dear Colleagues,
 Here's the scenario: You are finishing up a new dancers' lesson, and will
 be starting the dance in a few minutes. In walks a significant number (say
 6+) of newbies, all friends who want to dance together. Besides the two
 most common solutions, lower the difficulty and insist they NOT do the
 first couple of dances together, does anyone have an additional
 creative/elegant solution, enhancement actions to make the basics more
 effective, or important issues for consideration that are commonly missed?
 Greg
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