I call a fair number of dances that include novices, among them children who
often prefer to dance with someone of the same gender. I've gotten into the
habit of using "suns" and "moons" to distinguish roles, which they
bget a kick
out of. When I've been in situations where I'm calling to non-novice adults and
there is a gender imbalance, I've asked if they would prefer gender-free terms.
The overwhelming response has been negative.
Susan Elberger
Arlington, MA
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From: Lindsay Morris <lindsay(a)tsmworks.com>
To: Caller's discussion list <callers(a)sharedweight.net>
Sent: Sun, December 5, 2010 3:43:10 PM
Subject: Re: [Callers] Gender free dances
I can't find Ivan Illich's quote (help, anyone?) but he said something like:
It's very good for industry to have men and women be "equal". ie,
interchangeable cogs in the machine. But this destroys the cultural delight
of differing roles and gender celebration.
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Lindsay Morris
CEO, TSMworks
Tel. 1-859-539-9900
lindsay(a)tsmworks.com