Dear organizers, On a slightly different topic, when I read Darlene's post, I nodded my head at this: *I seldom chime in on things, though I lurk in the background, due to people going on the defense or sometimes attacking. I am only posting so you have some information on what we are doing here in our part of the world. * This has been true for me lately. (But Darlene's willingness to share emboldened me to share data from our dance series. Thanks Darlene!) I hope that this list can be a place where divergent experiences are shared, and where those varied perspectives are received respectfully, knowing they're offered with the intent of helping others in their organizing work. When I have questions or seek clarification or want to challenge that perspective, I know that I can either pursue those conversations off list (1:1 email, phone call or in person) or I can respond on the list with careful kindness and respect, hoping that the other person will respond in kind. When a listserv devolves into attacking or defensiveness, then the list members are effectively silencing people like Darlene. Which is a loss for all of us. But when many voices are heard, I learn new things, have my assumptions challenged, and get nudged into more complex thinking. And I can return to my community with fresh ideas. Which is the point of this listserv :) Cheers, Chrissy <><><><><><> chrissyfowler.com <http://www.chrissyfowler.com> dance leadership belfastflyingshoes.org <http://www.belfastflyingshoes.org> participatory dance & music _______________________________________________ Organizers mailing list -- organizers(a)lists.sharedweight.net To unsubscribe send an email to organizers-leave(a)lists.sharedweight.net

Dear organizers, On a slightly different topic, when I read Darlene's post, I nodded my head at this: *I seldom chime in on things, though I lurk in the background, due to people going on the defense or sometimes attacking. I am only posting so you have some information on what we are doing here in our part of the world. * This has been true for me lately. (But Darlene's willingness to share emboldened me to share data from our dance series. Thanks Darlene!) I hope that this list can be a place where divergent experiences are shared, and where those varied perspectives are received respectfully, knowing they're offered with the intent of helping others in their organizing work. When I have questions or seek clarification or want to challenge that perspective, I know that I can either pursue those conversations off list (1:1 email, phone call or in person) or I can respond on the list with careful kindness and respect, hoping that the other person will respond in kind. When a listserv devolves into attacking or defensiveness, then the list members are effectively silencing people like Darlene. Which is a loss for all of us. But when many voices are heard, I learn new things, have my assumptions challenged, and get nudged into more complex thinking. And I can return to my community with fresh ideas. Which is the point of this listserv :) Cheers, Chrissy <><><><><><> chrissyfowler.com <http://www.chrissyfowler.com> dance leadership belfastflyingshoes.org <http://www.belfastflyingshoes.org> participatory dance & music _______________________________________________ Organizers mailing list -- organizers(a)lists.sharedweight.net To unsubscribe send an email to organizers-leave(a)lists.sharedweight.net

Dear organizers, On a slightly different topic, when I read Darlene's post, I nodded my head at this: *I seldom chime in on things, though I lurk in the background, due to people going on the defense or sometimes attacking. I am only posting so you have some information on what we are doing here in our part of the world. * This has been true for me lately. (But Darlene's willingness to share emboldened me to share data from our dance series. Thanks Darlene!) I hope that this list can be a place where divergent experiences are shared, and where those varied perspectives are received respectfully, knowing they're offered with the intent of helping others in their organizing work. When I have questions or seek clarification or want to challenge that perspective, I know that I can either pursue those conversations off list (1:1 email, phone call or in person) or I can respond on the list with careful kindness and respect, hoping that the other person will respond in kind. When a listserv devolves into attacking or defensiveness, then the list members are effectively silencing people like Darlene. Which is a loss for all of us. But when many voices are heard, I learn new things, have my assumptions challenged, and get nudged into more complex thinking. And I can return to my community with fresh ideas. Which is the point of this listserv :) Cheers, Chrissy <><><><><><> chrissyfowler.com <http://www.chrissyfowler.com> dance leadership belfastflyingshoes.org <http://www.belfastflyingshoes.org> participatory dance & music _______________________________________________ Organizers mailing list -- organizers(a)lists.sharedweight.net To unsubscribe send an email to organizers-leave(a)lists.sharedweight.net