On 5/30/2017 2:16 PM, Martha Wild via Callers wrote:
So, a while back I was working with a band and they
played a tune that was sort of new for them, and the A part was fine, but the B part was
unusual anyway, and hard to know where the count was, in particular because they were
unfamiliar with it, and I tried to count and call so the dancers could keep going, and it
kept coming back together in the A, but falling apart in the B, until things snowballed
and the dance completely fell apart. What is the best thing to do or say in a situation
like that so that the band doesn’t feel too much as if it is their fault, and the dancers
don’t feel it’s their fault? And yes, it’s always the caller’s fault, since I couldn’t for
the life of me figure out what the heck was going on with that tune, but the dancers
couldn’t find their way in it either. Anyway, back to what to do to make everyone feel a
little better after that.
Martha
Much depends on your band. I was once able to rescue a situation like
that by saying to the band "I need stronger phrasing," but not every
band can respond to that mid-tune. I've had some cases where the tunes
were just weird or wrong in some way and unfixable, and the bands were
unwilling or unable to change tunes. Usually I've just gritted my
teeth, kept calling and calling and ended the dance as quickly as I
could. I was able once, when the problem with the tune was evident
right away, to stop the dance as we were heading into the second time
through. I said something on mic like "Sorry about that folks. I need
to pick a different tune," which kind of deflected it from the band to
me. The musicians were cool about it and since the dancers hadn't
really gotten into the groove yet it worked ok. But when you're well
and truly into the dance and it's a dysfunctional slog, it's hard to
pull the plug.
It helps to have a bulletproof fun dance that you can switch to after
something like that, a quick teach with a strong tune, where you can
shake off the ickies and get everyone back into a good mood.
Kalia