Re: [Callers] Genderless calling - Import1

31 Jul 2017

This is THE BEST email strain ever.

On Mon, Jul 31, 2017 at 6:25 PM, Donald Perley via Callers <
callers(a)lists.sharedweight.net&gt; wrote:

...
  I think the tags were key.  My worst experiences were
when gender is
 not mentioned, and people have
 no reminder of which role they are dancing.

 On Mon, Jul 31, 2017 at 12:59 PM, Amy Wimmer via Callers
 &lt;callers(a)lists.sharedweight.net&gt; wrote:
  Hi All,

 I recently had the opportunity to call a contra to a group of rank  beginners
  in a difficult situation: outdoors, on sloping
concrete, without
 amplification for either myself or the band, to people not expecting a
 dance, with a band mostly unfamiliar with either contra or fiddle tunes,  who
  had no opportunity to practice or choose tunes.
It was a staff party  with a
  barnyard theme. Granted, this particular good of
people is accustomed to
 being spontaneous and silly at times, most are in their 20's, and it's a
 liberal, accepting group.

 The organizers wanted to use the terms "cows" and "chickens" instead
of  any
  other usual terms for dancers. When they arrived
at the party each person
 chose a name tag with either a cow or a chicken on it. They didn't know  it,
  but this determined which role they'd play in
the dance. I arbitrarily  chose
  to "put the chicken on the right, because
the chicken is always right."  (I
  keep chickens, and they ARE always right)

 There was not time for much of a lesson, either. It'd have been much  easier
  if everyone had joined the dance at the
beginning. All said, just about
 everyone had a really great time, myself included. The band was hyped up  to
  try another dance evening later in the week,
though that never  materialized.

 I never mentioned gender in any way. That part just seemed to not matter.
 They were dancing with their friends. It didn't matter that they weren't
 experts or even very good.

 I was heartened and encouraged to try something like this again, perhaps
 with more widely used dancer terms.

 -Amy

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