On Mar 25, 2018, at 5:48 PM, John Freeman <johnfreem(a)aol.com> wrote: I have to agree with Tom. The only push back I have ever received was from two female callers I helped get started. This was in the early 90s. I have otherwise never had a complaint about calling singing square dances as they have been traditionally called/sung. That said, I try to know my crowd before I accept a gig. A so-called politically correct dance would likely not be my cup of whiskey. These days I mostly call “barn dances” and "community dances”. I have learn to adapt my calls to each crowd. This has worked very well for me. I only call to live music. This is a long-standing personal choice that has certainly cost me many gigs. These days, I cannot expect most bands to know the music for the singing square dances I grew up with. Keep on dancing! John B. Freeman, SFTPOCJ

I'm going to be controversial, so please think hard about what I'm saying - and why you're reacting to it the way you are - before replying. I think "Political correctness" is mainly an American problem, though it seems to be spreading to England too. The word "nigger" was not originally a pejorative term, just a description - it's the Latin word for "black" with the "g" doubled. Since then it has become "black", "negro", "coloured", "of colour" and "African-American" (not much use in England, that last one), and possibly others that I don't know about. But this "political correctness" is treating the symptom, not the disease. If we look down on black people, or women, or homosexuals, or gypsies, or people with mental or physical disabilities, then any word we choose to label them with eventually comes to mean "those people we look down on", and has to be replaced by another euphemism. It wouldn't surprise me if in a few years' time the word "gay" was seen as "inappropriate" (a word I hate as much as "politically correct") and had to be replaced by another term. And different people like to refer to themselves in different ways. Some women in the USA object to being called "ladies". But some ladies in England object to being called "women"! Similarly some gypsies like being called "gypsies", and I'm guessing that they would object to the word "travellers" because that would include people who chose to follow a travelling way of life but were not real gypsies. So I'm with Tom Hinds - always be respectful, not intentionally disrespectful. Colin Hume Email colin(a)colinhume.com Web site http://colinhume.com _______________________________________________ List Name: Callers mailing list List Address: Callers(a)lists.sharedweight.net Archives: https://www.mail-archive.com/callers@lists.sharedweight.net/