As organizers, we invest lots of energy to build healthy communities.
It's very painful to watch controversy disrupt long-standing 
relationships, and threaten to fracture our groups.
That's the motivation behind a new website:  
http://genderanddance.org
  (You may have seen it described in December's CDSS News)
This site simply encourages people to listen respectfully to each 
other's stories. It's not about advocacy or argument. Posts are 
anonymous, and there's no place for comments or "likes." Our 
communities are more diverse than you might guess, and we can all 
learn from this wide range of perspectives. (Many posts have nothing 
to do with language controversy - gender is a deeply personal subject).
My belief: As understanding grows, former adversaries discover shared 
values, that overshadow differences. We can embrace the challenges of 
diversity, and work together to build communities where all can flourish.
Thanks for taking a look, encouraging others to do the same, and 
sharing your own stories.
      (FYI, there are currently almost no stories about the 
experiences of organizers faced with gender issues ... many dancers 
are oblivious to the challenges we face)
http://genderanddance.org
Scott Higgs