Could you specifically address my question of how to get new dancers to
show up on time for the lesson? I think it would be ok to advertise the
event as starting at 7:00 with lesson (or basic moves instruction) in the
first half hour. I feel like when new people come at 7:00 and experienced
arrive at 7:30 that already sets the newbies up as "a tribe apart". We
need to get as many as possible there at 7:00 to integrate and socialize.
Thoughts?
On Tue, Mar 14, 2023 at 6:50 AM Mary Collins <nativedae(a)gmail.com> wrote:
Alexander- oops...while we are not specifically gender
free, we strive for
it in a very very conservative group of older dancers. I am scheduled to
meet with our web person soon and will adress verbage. Thanks for this info.
On Mon, Mar 13, 2023, 4:34 PM Alexandra Deis-Lauby <adeislauby(a)gmail.com>
wrote:
> Mary,
>
> Is the Buffalo dance gender free? The website tells callers to use gents
> and ladies. If the dance is in fact gender free, then the website needs
> updating. If you are advertising the dance as gender free but use gents
> and ladies, that would certainly not encourage me to return if I were a new
> dancer.
>
>
>
> On Mar 13, 2023, at 3:54 PM, Mary Collins via Organizers <
> organizers(a)lists.sharedweight.net> wrote:
>
> Watching this as we have the same issue. We are (I believe) the 2nd
> largest city in NYS and have the most pitiful turnout.
>
> I think you have some good ideas here.
>
> One comment: we often or even always speak about our dance not only
> gender free, no partner necessary to bring, but also as no lessons needed,
> each dance being taught and "walked through". Then we advertise "the
> lesson" b4 the dance. If words matter (and I think we agree they do) the
> this is a huge contradiction.
>
> I say to people these sets of words & phrasing: easy, walking to music,
> Only 8 steps, no need to bring partner but a friend is fun, dances are
> taught, practiced (stole from country line dance & swing) and then they are
> prompted once the music starts. We offer basic move instruction rather than
> lesson.
>
> I don't really know if these changes help, hinder or have no effect. I
> only know that not having a friend anchor for the first few dances would
> have resulted in my not coming back. The lesson too. But that's just my
> perception.
>
> We give out "get in free" cards and encourage ppl to share theirs with a
> friend. I also encourage people who say "I told my friends...", to next
> dance offer to pick them up or meet b4 and come together.
>
> We also encourage experienced dancers to partner with new dancers.
>
> I am anxious to hear other's ideas.
>
> Mary "from Buffalo", not.
>
>
> On Mon, Mar 13, 2023, 12:49 PM Sandy Seiler via Organizers <
> organizers(a)lists.sharedweight.net> wrote:
>
>> Newbies are not returning my thoughts...
>> Why? not feeling welcome?, feeling intimidated/too hard? Coming late to
>> lesson and being lost/confused during dance? Lack of feeling of
>> mastery/learning? Need follow up lesson since we only dance 1x/month? One
>> month is a long time to wait for another lesson. Not enough younger
>> dancers like themselves?
>> Ideas:
>> 1. Use beginner friendly buttons
>> 2. Ask experienced dancers to dance with beginners for first 2 dances at
>> least. Board members lead by example.
>> 3. Encourage experienced dancers to come for the beginner lesson to
>> welcome/socialize with new dancers.
>> 4. Have caller or one of us give out free passes (pass for next dance)
>> at the lesson so we don't have to remember to do it at the table. We gave
>> out 15 free passes to new dancers in Feb and did not get any to return in
>> March. (March dance was on 2nd sat instead of our normal 3rd sat and it's
>> spring break. Feb attendance 61, March 38 (paid dancers, not including 3
>> listeners). Also there was a local magazine article about LBDA in February
>> and we had our most experienced and popular contra dance band (Kaw Creek)
>> playing.
>> 5. Our Lesson is at 7:00, Dance 7:30. Should we use start time 7:00 in
>> advertising bc experienced dancers will figure it out and adjust to coming
>> at 7:30 more easily than new people knowing they need to come at 7:00 for
>> the lesson. New people attending and being on time for 7:00 lesson is
>> important for a smooth dance so do we need to advertise that way? Want
>> experienced dancers to be there to meet and socialize with them so they can
>> be better integrated into the community and not feel so awkward. I have
>> suggested this to our board before, but was told that would be manipulative
>> toward experienced dancers who would be upset that they came too early and
>> wasted their time. That feels like a very unwelcoming attitude, and I
>> would like to encourage all our dancers to consider that 7:00 is our start
>> time because beginners are important and we need to be there to greet them
>> and socialize.
>> 6. Schedule a 1 hour lesson or series of lessons led by experienced
>> callers Lisa and or Jill and a couple new callers... before the dance? On
>> a different day? Through Parks and Rec this summer?
>> 7. New dancers are far outnumbering experienced dancers. Need to do
>> advanced dance to pull back in some dancers who drifted away after the
>> pandemic. Contact individually by phone/email?
>>
>> And then getting younger people to attend is a whole other but strongly
>> related topic we need to address more effectively. We are not getting
>> enough young people at dances. It appears to me that when a young person
>> comes they often decide to not return because there aren't enough people in
>> their age group.
>>
>> Please tell me if you like/encourage these ideas I have come up with so
>> far and add others.
>> Especially I want to know how to get new people to come on time for the
>> lesson.
>> Is it ok to advertise dance for 7:00 even though first 30 minutes is
>> lesson? It's frustrating for our callers and then they don't get a full
>> lesson which is not good for anyone.
>>
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