My first time, I attended at the invitation of a friend and coworker. She basically invited the entire staff at our workplace during our weekly meeting. This was in Louisville. 

I was recently separated, and I knew I needed some positive socialization, so I showed up. I didn't see my friend, but I was swept into the dance, one woman after another asking me for the next dance. It definitely made me feel not only welcome, but actually wanted. I decided that night to attend as often as possible (luckily, it was weekly).

Jerome Grisanti 



On Fri, Nov 10, 2023, 7:52 PM Robert Matson via Organizers <organizers@lists.sharedweight.net> wrote:
You all, I'm curious to hear YOUR first experiences at a contra, whether when young or not.

As I think back, it took me three attempts over about 15 years, from young to less young, to get over the threshold and really start enjoying myself (not counting those grade school square dance classes).  My first experiences stunk.  Once I got into contra, I was always concerned when I brought friends who were new to contra whether they'd have fun.  The most perilous moments were 1) when they (or I) needed to find a partner and, then, 2) absorbing the disapproval of hot shot dancers when one messed up.  Now, as an organizer, I'd like to stay aware of the confusion and concerns of first-, second- and third-... timers.

Would anyone mind sharing?

Rob
Dancing in Arkansas
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