Things that make the price go up that are common at weddings:
- alcohol
- open bar
- children
- the couple doesn't expect things like "you need a sound system"
- They're non-dancers and they either don't wanna dance or jump in the middle, don't know any of the etiquette, etc.
- difficult dance floor (non-wood, small, edges that drop off, people spilling drinks on it, etc)
- other expectations that they didn't mention that come up later
- needing to be there extra early and potentially leave later
- they expect you to hire the band and/or sound person / provide sound / do pre-recorded music
- they have special requests
- they aren't exactly sure when the dancing will be, and, honestly, dancing almost never starts exactly when they say it will

Honestly, even $250 + travel $ isn't worth is unless it's a "I show up, I do my thing, I leave" at a dry wedding where everything's ontime. (Or it's someone I know, in which case, I likely am doing it as the gift to the couple.)
And I say this really enjoying non-wedding events where it's all newer dancers. There's just SO many variables at a wedding (or similar event) that make it difficult.

Don't undersell yourself. A DJ is charging 3x that for less work.

In dance
Julian Blechner
he/him
Western Mass, USA.

On Mon, Nov 10, 2025 at 3:13 PM Lisa Sieverts via Contra Callers <contracallers@lists.sharedweight.net> wrote:
For a while before COVID, there was an informal “contest” about payment for wedding dances.

As I remember, the high bar was someone who received $3,000 as the caller.

Think about how much DJs and wedding bands charge.

Having said that, for my last wedding gig, I charged $1250 which included 2 musicians and us bringing and doing our own sound. The musicians played for about 2 hours of post-wedding hors d’oeuvres and then we did about 90 minutes of dancing.

Lisa Sieverts
Nelson, NH

On 10 Nov 2025, at 14:31, Joseph Erhard-Hudson via Contra Callers wrote:

> While I ponder my answer, I'm curious to hear what other callers charge for
> wedding dances. If there's a range, would you ask differently for newly-met
> people vs. friends from your dance community vs. close friends and family?
> What other factors would you consider?
>
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