I also have many male dancers who don’t want to do ballroom-hold swings with other men.

I always recommend the Double Allemande Swing: https://youtu.be/Ue0yCtjjbGs?t=107

I have offered this hold to countless men and ladies on both sides of the Atlantic and it always works easily and well.

BTW When relevant I use Men and Ladies – I think the words are much clearer than the alternative gendered terms. 

            Happy dancing,

                   John                      

John Sweeney, Dancer, England   john@modernjive.com 01233 625 362 & 07802 940 574

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