Leslie

Well stated.

Seth Tepfer (he, him, his)
Software Engineering, Emory Primate Center

From: Leslie Gotfrit via Contra Callers <contracallers@lists.sharedweight.net>
Sent: Tuesday, November 11, 2025 1:30 AM
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Subject: [External] [Callers] Re: Fees for a wedding dance. Contra Callers Digest, Vol 136, Issue 5
 
I may waive or halve my fee for a close friend but I always ensure the three-piece band gets their full fee. With sound and travel of 1-2 hours I charge $2000 to $2500 with half up front to hold the date. (Date is not guaranteed until deposit is paid.) We are the entertainment. We take a dinner party and turn it to a memorable, joyful, playful event that brings two families together. We are there for four or five hours working hard to make that event a success regardless of alcohol, children, or lousy dance floors. All the same to me--that's my job. I have spent hours pulling the band, sound, the couple's vision and program together and no matter how inexpensive the wedding, we are still often the cheapest piece.

Leslie Gotfrit

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