<div><div dir="auto">I don’t have any additional suggestions but want to thank Maia for the original post and appreciate all the replies. I think many of us identify and it reassures me that I’m not the only one who has had to figure out how to forgive my errors. I’ve found it especially helpful to notice the mistakes made by well respected callers and how un-flustered they seem to be by them.</div><div class="gmail_quote"><blockquote class="gmail_quote" style="margin:0 0 0 .8ex;border-left:1px #ccc solid;padding-left:1ex"><div dir="auto"><div class="gmail_extra" dir="auto"><br><div class="gmail_quote"><blockquote class="m_-6343924309816383365quote" style="margin:0 0 0 .8ex;border-left:1px #ccc solid;padding-left:1ex"><div style="word-wrap:break-word"><div dir="auto"><blockquote type="cite"><div class="m_-6343924309816383365quoted-text" dir="auto"><div dir="auto"><br></div><div dir="auto"><br></div><div dir="auto"><br></div></div><div class="gmail_extra" dir="auto"><br><div class="gmail_quote"><div class="m_-6343924309816383365quoted-text">On Mon, Nov 6, 2017 at 11:10 AM, Maia McCormick via Callers <span><<a href="mailto:callers@lists.sharedweight.net" target="_blank">callers@listssharedweight.net</a>></span> wrote:<br></div><blockquote class="gmail_quote"><div class="m_-6343924309816383365quoted-text"><span style="color:rgb(69,69,69);font-family:UICTFontTextStyleBody;font-size:17px;text-decoration:-webkit-letterpress">So after a gig, I find myself haunted by one or two missteps from an evening — the rolling start that was a little muddy, the thing I didn’t teach clearly enough so the dancers never quite got it — even though the dancers adjusted and all had a good time, and I still had the hall’s trust and goodwill at the end of the evening.</span><div><span style="color:rgb(69,69,69);font-family:UICTFontTextStyleBody;font-size:17px;text-decoration:-webkit-letterpress"><br></span></div><div><span style="color:rgb(69,69,69);font-family:UICTFontTextStyleBody;font-size:17px;text-decoration:-webkit-letterpress">Is this a familiar experience for anyone? Assuming you’ve already learned the lesson to be learned there, how do you move past it and stop self-flagellating?</span><span style="color:rgb(69,69,69);font-family:UICTFontTextStyleBody;font-size:17px;text-decoration:-webkit-letterpress">Would love to hear some people’s thoughts!</span></div><div><span style="color:rgb(69,69,69);font-family:UICTFontTextStyleBody;font-size:17px;text-decoration:-webkit-letterpress"><br></span></div><div><span style="color:rgb(69,69,69);font-family:UICTFontTextStyleBody;font-size:17px;text-decoration:-webkit-letterpress">Cheers,</span></div><div><span style="color:rgb(69,69,69);font-family:UICTFontTextStyleBody;font-size:17px;text-decoration:-webkit-letterpress">Maia</span></div>
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