<html><body><div style="color:#000; background-color:#fff; font-family:garamond, new york, times, serif;font-size:16px"><div id="yui_3_16_0_1_1433093705219_2907" dir="ltr">Thank you Jacob too - Toronto held Square Dancing in the Parks three evenings a week during the summer months in the 1990s using live music <br></div><div id="yui_3_16_0_1_1433093705219_3193" dir="ltr">and traditional Canadian callers. The MWSD dancers that came would insist on doing dosados passing right shoulders, when traditionally these <br></div><div id="yui_3_16_0_1_1433093705219_3548" dir="ltr">dancers (as with some US "eastern" square dance venues) would pass left shoulders (as a left allemande no hands) when in a static square. </div><div id="yui_3_16_0_1_1433093705219_3782" dir="ltr"><br></div><div id="yui_3_16_0_1_1433093705219_3804" dir="ltr">Attitude: Those "club" dancers would lecture, scold, and barge. I would say the left position of a couple is typically the gents-side and call it that</div><div id="yui_3_16_0_1_1433093705219_4126" dir="ltr">way - using that terminology. Senior ladies, more apt to to fill the left side role out of need, seem to have no problem with terms....but whatever</div><div id="yui_3_16_0_1_1433093705219_4413" dir="ltr">works for you and your group. Attitude!<br></div><div id="yui_3_16_0_1_1433093705219_4431" dir="ltr"><br></div><div id="yui_3_16_0_1_1433093705219_3946" dir="ltr">Bob Livingston</div><div id="yui_3_16_0_1_1433093705219_3947" dir="ltr">Middletown, CT<br></div><div id="yui_3_16_0_1_1433093705219_2775"><span id="yui_3_16_0_1_1433093705219_3008"></span></div><br> <div id="yui_3_16_0_1_1433093705219_2778" style="font-family: garamond, new york, times, serif; font-size: 16px;"> <div id="yui_3_16_0_1_1433093705219_2777" style="font-family: HelveticaNeue, Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Arial, Lucida Grande, sans-serif; font-size: 16px;"> <div id="yui_3_16_0_1_1433093705219_2776" dir="ltr"> <hr id="yui_3_16_0_1_1433093705219_2946" size="1"> <font id="yui_3_16_0_1_1433093705219_2779" face="Arial" size="2"> <b id="yui_3_16_0_1_1433093705219_2945"><span id="yui_3_16_0_1_1433093705219_2944" style="font-weight:bold;">From:</span></b> susanelberger via Callers <callers@lists.sharedweight.net><br> <b id="yui_3_16_0_1_1433093705219_2943"><span id="yui_3_16_0_1_1433093705219_2942" style="font-weight: bold;">To:</span></b> <br><b id="yui_3_16_0_1_1433093705219_2948"><span id="yui_3_16_0_1_1433093705219_2947" style="font-weight: bold;">Cc:</span></b> callers <callers@lists.sharedweight.net> <br> <b id="yui_3_16_0_1_1433093705219_2993"><span id="yui_3_16_0_1_1433093705219_2992" style="font-weight: bold;">Sent:</span></b> Sunday, May 31, 2015 12:53 PM<br> <b id="yui_3_16_0_1_1433093705219_2991"><span id="yui_3_16_0_1_1433093705219_2990" style="font-weight: bold;">Subject:</span></b> Re: [Callers] The Benefits of Difference (was: Jets / rubies genderfree terms redux: gems?)<br> </font> </div> <div id="yui_3_16_0_1_1433093705219_2819" class="y_msg_container"><br><div id="yiv8107278143"><div id="yui_3_16_0_1_1433093705219_2821"><div id="yui_3_16_0_1_1433093705219_2820" style="color:#000;background-color:#fff;font-family:HelveticaNeue, Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Arial, Lucida Grande, sans-serif;font-size:16px;"><div id="yiv8107278143yui_3_16_0_1_1433090920512_5606"><span id="yiv8107278143yui_3_16_0_1_1433090920512_5628">Thank you, Jacob. I think you have identified the real issue. We don't need for everyone to do the same thing as long as our audiences understand what we are saying.</span></div><div id="yiv8107278143yui_3_16_0_1_1433090920512_5642"><br clear="none"><span id="yiv8107278143yui_3_16_0_1_1433090920512_5628"></span></div><div id="yui_3_16_0_1_1433093705219_2905"><span id="yiv8107278143yui_3_16_0_1_1433090920512_5628">Susan Elberger</span></div><br clear="none"> <div id="yiv8107278143yui_3_16_0_1_1433090920512_5646" style="font-family:HelveticaNeue, Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Arial, Lucida Grande, sans-serif;font-size:16px;"> <div id="yiv8107278143yui_3_16_0_1_1433090920512_5645" style="font-family:HelveticaNeue, Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Arial, Lucida Grande, sans-serif;font-size:16px;"> <div class="qtdSeparateBR"><br><br></div><div class="yiv8107278143yqt8766839028" id="yiv8107278143yqt05119"><div dir="ltr" id="yiv8107278143yui_3_16_0_1_1433090920512_5644"> <hr id="yui_3_16_0_1_1433093705219_3228" size="1"> <font id="yiv8107278143yui_3_16_0_1_1433090920512_5643" face="Arial" size="2"> <b id="yui_3_16_0_1_1433093705219_3723"><span id="yui_3_16_0_1_1433093705219_3722" style="font-weight:bold;">From:</span></b> Jacob Nancy Bloom via Callers <callers@lists.sharedweight.net><br clear="none"> <b id="yui_3_16_0_1_1433093705219_3725"><span id="yui_3_16_0_1_1433093705219_3724" style="font-weight:bold;">To:</span></b> Delia Clark <deliaclark8@gmail.com> <br clear="none"><b id="yui_3_16_0_1_1433093705219_2981"><span id="yui_3_16_0_1_1433093705219_2980" style="font-weight:bold;">Cc:</span></b> callers <callers@lists.sharedweight.net> <br clear="none"> <b id="yui_3_16_0_1_1433093705219_2983"><span id="yui_3_16_0_1_1433093705219_2982" style="font-weight:bold;">Sent:</span></b> Saturday, May 30, 2015 7:10 PM<br clear="none"> <b><span style="font-weight:bold;">Subject:</span></b> [Callers] The Benefits of Difference (was: Jets / rubies genderfree terms redux: gems?)<br clear="none"> </font> </div> <div class="yiv8107278143y_msg_container" id="yiv8107278143yui_3_16_0_1_1433090920512_5653"><br clear="none"><div id="yiv8107278143"><div dir="ltr" id="yiv8107278143yui_3_16_0_1_1433090920512_5652"><div class="yiv8107278143gmail_default" style="font-family:verdana, sans-serif;font-size:small;"><span style="font-family:arial, sans-serif;">On Sat, May 30, 2015 at 2:57 PM, Delia Clark via Callers </span><span dir="ltr" style="font-family:arial, sans-serif;"><<a rel="nofollow" shape="rect" ymailto="mailto:callers@lists.sharedweight.net" target="_blank" href="mailto:callers@lists.sharedweight.net">callers@lists.sharedweight.net</a>></span><span style="font-family:arial, sans-serif;"> wrote:</span><br clear="none"></div><div class="yiv8107278143gmail_extra" id="yiv8107278143yui_3_16_0_1_1433090920512_5651"><div class="yiv8107278143gmail_quote" id="yiv8107278143yui_3_16_0_1_1433090920512_5650"><blockquote id="yui_3_16_0_1_1433093705219_3334" class="yiv8107278143gmail_quote" style="margin:0 0 0 .8ex;border-left:1px #ccc solid;padding-left:1ex;"><div id="yui_3_16_0_1_1433093705219_3333" style="word-wrap:break-word;"><div id="yui_3_16_0_1_1433093705219_3332"><div class="yiv8107278143gmail_default" style="font-family:verdana, sans-serif;font-size:small;display:inline;">...</div></div></div></blockquote><div id="yiv8107278143yui_3_16_0_1_1433090920512_5659"> </div><blockquote class="yiv8107278143gmail_quote" id="yiv8107278143yui_3_16_0_1_1433090920512_5649" style="margin:0 0 0 .8ex;border-left:1px #ccc solid;padding-left:1ex;"><div id="yiv8107278143yui_3_16_0_1_1433090920512_5648" style="word-wrap:break-word;"><div id="yiv8107278143yui_3_16_0_1_1433090920512_5647"> It will ultimately be a good thing if there is a generally accepted set of words (certainly not a strict requirement, but something that’s generally accepted across the country, if possible) that meet the range of criteria, along the lines of those suggested by Ron in his matrix. </div></div></blockquote><div id="yui_3_16_0_1_1433093705219_3340"><br clear="none"></div><div id="yui_3_16_0_1_1433093705219_3336"><div id="yui_3_16_0_1_1433093705219_3335" class="yiv8107278143gmail_default" style="font-family:verdana, sans-serif;font-size:small;display:inline;">There is an assumption behind this statement which is often made, but which I find very disturbing.</div></div><div id="yui_3_16_0_1_1433093705219_3362"><div class="yiv8107278143gmail_default" style="font-family:verdana, sans-serif;font-size:small;display:inline;"><br clear="none"></div></div><div id="yiv8107278143yui_3_16_0_1_1433090920512_5655"><div class="yiv8107278143gmail_default" id="yiv8107278143yui_3_16_0_1_1433090920512_5654" style="font-family:verdana, sans-serif;font-size:small;display:inline;">The assumption is that it is an unalloyed good thing for there to be standardization. This is the kind of thinking that led the Modern Western Square Dance movement to standardize all of their calls, and all of their teaching programs. They wanted any square dancer to be able to go to any square dance club in the country, or in the world, and immediately know exactly what was meant by everything that was said. There are some advantages to that kind of standardization, especially if you happen to be a globe-hopping square dancer who enjoys dancing hot hash, but it comes at a tremendous cost. </div></div><div id="yui_3_16_0_1_1433093705219_3339"><div class="yiv8107278143gmail_default" style="font-family:verdana, sans-serif;font-size:small;display:inline;"><br clear="none"></div></div><div id="yui_3_16_0_1_1433093705219_3338"><div id="yui_3_16_0_1_1433093705219_3337" class="yiv8107278143gmail_default" style="font-family:verdana, sans-serif;font-size:small;display:inline;">It comes with a loss of the opportunity to experience, adapt to, and appreciate regional differences. I don't care about being able to go to a new place just to find that things there are done in the same way that I'm used to them being done back home. I care about being able to go to new places and learning the way things are done there.</div></div><div id="yiv8107278143yui_3_16_0_1_1433090920512_5656"><div class="yiv8107278143gmail_default" style="font-family:verdana, sans-serif;font-size:small;display:inline;"><br clear="none"></div></div><div id="yui_3_16_0_1_1433093705219_3393"><div id="yui_3_16_0_1_1433093705219_3392" class="yiv8107278143gmail_default" style="font-family:verdana, sans-serif;font-size:small;display:inline;">What this means for the current discussion, from my point of view, is that it's a good thing if dance callers and producers discuss the advantages and disadvantages of using different terminology, and consider what language will work best for their dance. It would be a BAD thing if anyone switched terminology JUST BECAUSE that's what other people were doing. </div></div><div id="yui_3_16_0_1_1433093705219_3363"><div class="yiv8107278143gmail_default" style="font-family:verdana, sans-serif;font-size:small;display:inline;"><br clear="none"></div></div><div id="yiv8107278143yui_3_16_0_1_1433090920512_5658"><div class="yiv8107278143gmail_default" id="yiv8107278143yui_3_16_0_1_1433090920512_5657" style="font-family:verdana, sans-serif;font-size:small;display:inline;">It may well be that a certain set of terms will become generally accepted because it works better for the dancers in a lot of places. It may well be that dances which were written to be gender-neutral will be generally accepted because they work better for the dancers in a lot of places. In the meantime, if you find yourself assuming that it would a good thing if there was standardization across the country, please give some thought to what advantage you are trying to achieve, and what the disadvantages would be.</div></div><div id="yui_3_16_0_1_1433093705219_3394"><div class="yiv8107278143gmail_default" style="font-family:verdana, sans-serif;font-size:small;display:inline;"><br clear="none"></div></div><div id="yui_3_16_0_1_1433093705219_3396"><div class="yiv8107278143gmail_default" style="font-family:verdana, sans-serif;font-size:small;display:inline;">Jacob Bloom</div></div></div></div></div></div><br clear="none">_______________________________________________<br clear="none">Callers mailing list<br clear="none"><a rel="nofollow" shape="rect" ymailto="mailto:Callers@lists.sharedweight.net" target="_blank" href="mailto:Callers@lists.sharedweight.net">Callers@lists.sharedweight.net</a><br clear="none"><a rel="nofollow" shape="rect" target="_blank" href="http://lists.sharedweight.net/listinfo.cgi/callers-sharedweight.net">http://lists.sharedweight.net/listinfo.cgi/callers-sharedweight.net</a><br clear="none"><br clear="none"><br clear="none"></div></div> </div> </div> </div></div></div><br><div class="yqt8766839028" id="yqt08645">_______________________________________________<br clear="none">Callers mailing list<br clear="none"><a shape="rect" ymailto="mailto:Callers@lists.sharedweight.net" href="mailto:Callers@lists.sharedweight.net">Callers@lists.sharedweight.net</a><br clear="none"><a shape="rect" href="http://lists.sharedweight.net/listinfo.cgi/callers-sharedweight.net" target="_blank">http://lists.sharedweight.net/listinfo.cgi/callers-sharedweight.net</a><br clear="none"></div><br><br></div> </div> </div> </div></body></html>