[Callers] Leading, consent in embellishments

[Tom Hinds]

> see my comments sprinkled.......
> On Mar 6, 2018, at 12:21 AM, Jeanette Mill via Callers wrote:
>
>> Hello
>>
>> I am devising a workshop for a festival here in Australia, and  
>> have long been of the opinion that there are no "leaders" in  
>> contra dance couples.
>
>
> That's a great issue to discuss.  My thought is that having a  
> really fun time requires someone to take the initiative.  Of course  
> it's quite possible that dancing in Australia is different than  
> dancing here in the states.
>
>
>> Moves should be executed with mutual consent, especially  
>> embellishments such as turning under out of a ladies' chain.  
>> Conventions such as waltz hold swings are really useful here. In  
>> Australia, other related dance forms use a variety of swing holds,  
>> which lead to confusion and interruption of flow. I plan to place  
>> some emphasis on conventions of holds, such as allemande and star  
>> holds.
> Would it depend on the situation?  If there are new dancers would  
> you expect or appreciate leading from a more experienced dancer?  I  
> would say skill level would play a part in this issue even between  
> people who are not beginners.
>>
>> I would value people's opinions on this, as it may ruffle some  
>> long-held conventions. Any words of wisdom from the gender free  
>> dance community would be especially welcome.
>>
>>
>> Also, I believe that if dancers are to enjoy embellishments, they  
>> must be by mutual consent. This is so difficult to establish in a  
>> microsecond. I would value any thoughts on how to advise reaching  
>> this consent in the context of a contra dance.
> I know in my small town everyone knows everyone and it's easy to  
> adjust your style when it comes to embellishments.  When you meet  
> someone in line you know what to expect unless it's a new face.
>
> Would that be very different at a large dance or say at a festival  
> where people from other areas attend?
>>
>> Looking forward to your thoughts
> My limited personal experience is that I'm the leader because I'm  
> the stronger dancer.
>
> If I verbally suggest that my partner "twirl me" they will, but  
> it's usually in the wrong direction or at the wrong time.  There  
> are good female leaders out there, but not here in my town.  So how  
> about a workshop where people are allowed or encouraged to try the  
> role they may not be the most comfortable with?
>>
>> cheers
>> Jeanette
>>
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